Friday, August 20, 2010

My boyfriend ****** up and this is my letter to him. Comment pls.?

So when exactly did you plan on calling me last night and telling me you werent going to come pick me up? We spend everyday together and i thought it would be nice to let you go out and hang out with some guys and have time away from me. Thats why when you invited me to go to the get together I said ';No you go have fun. You need time away from me every once and again.'; You thought that was cool of me so you went out. BUT you promised me you would come back and get me so that we could spend the night together and you could take me to work in the morning considering you totalled my car being a dumb *** sliding on the ice. We were supposed to watch movies, cuddle, and talk about some things that I realy needed someone to vent with. You dont let me hang out with my friends.. you dont let me go out and do things.. so that makes you my only friend.. the only person I have to talk to and hang out with. So last night when i was sitting by the door waiting for your call for 2 hours i realized how much of a dick head you are. You told me thirty minutes. I called you and you were talking to me like a was some trash off the side of the street and not your girlfriend who youve been with for a year and a half. Really? I Depended on you to be the one to wake up with me this morning and take me to work. I depended on you to not lie to me and tell me you were going for thirty minutes and then stay for 4 hours. Not to mention when I called your phone all i could hear was girls screaming in the background and loud music.. at one point you were even going down 92 with them in your car. All while i was at home waiting for you. I mean if you wanted to hangout with those people for a long time thats fine but you could have atleast given me a courtesy call to let me know i could go ahead and go to sleep and not wait on you. after ignoring my calls for a long period of time you finally answered the phone and when i told you i was going to your dads to gather up ALL of my things you didnt care. You didnt try to stop me. You just met these people this night and the guy who invited you has only been your friend for a month yet you were putting all of them before me. I was crying and you didnt give two shits. As soon as someone else came along who wanted to chill with you you left me in the dirt. So i went to your dads and i got ALL of my stuff. You dont know how to treat me. The world always has to revolve around you and im sick of it. I do EVERYTHING for you. I bought you a 300 dollar christmas gift when the one you got for me was 150. I buy your food for you all the time considering you dont have a job and i do. I help you with gas. I make your protein shakes for you, i make your bed and occasionally do your laudry. When you have a stressful day i rub your back for you and things and THIS is what i get in return. YOu called me 4 times last night and didnt say anything when i answered the phone.. you just let me hear those trashy sluts in the back ground and your loud music. You will understand one day that you made a big mistake. A VERY BIG MISTAKE. those girls arent going to be the ones doing **** for you and at this point neither am i. Im done. So when you try calling me today and the next days to come.. youll get a big **** YOU from me. I will be busy. Im done with you.. i cant keep letting people walk all over me. especially someone like you who i put before EVERYONE! My friends, my family.. and the second an AQUANTAINCE wants attention you basically forget who i am. Im NOT just some girl and i wont be treated like SOME girl.My boyfriend ****** up and this is my letter to him. Comment pls.?
Its a long and angry email. It seems that he don't appreciate what u've done for him. Does he truly loves u? Sorry to say this, I doubt it. Find time to talk to him face to face and sort things out.. Whatever the outcome will be, accept and respect. :)

BoyFriend Application (they're are three more questions e-mail me if you want them) I'll e-mail you!?

tell me....


BASICS:


Name:


Age:


Location:


Height:


Hair (color and style):


Eyes:


OTHER:


Are u a virgin?


1. Where would we go on dates?


2. Who is your favorite rapper?


3. Do you drink/smoke?


4. Do wear jordans?


5. If so What was your last pair?


6. Would you give me a lap dance?


7. Would you buy me things?


8. Could we cuddle and just fall asleep together?


9. Would you kiss my neck?


10. Do you play any sports?


11. If so...what?


12. Would you call me right after we saw eachother?


13. How would you rate your kisses from 1-10?


14. Favorite body part on you?


15. What would you say is the best thing about yourself?


16. Do you have any reps (ie: heartbreaker, prick, slut,player etc)?


17. Would you give me a kiss just because?


18. Would u sleep in the same bed wit me?


19. Would u take me home to meet your parents?


20. Would u have sex with me?


21. If so, whats the soonest into our relationship you'd have it?


22. Would you tell your friends we had sex?BoyFriend Application (they're are three more questions e-mail me if you want them) I'll e-mail you!?
r u that desperate?BoyFriend Application (they're are three more questions e-mail me if you want them) I'll e-mail you!?
BASICS:


Name:


Age:


Location:


Height:


Hair (color and style):


Eyes:


OTHER:


Are u a virgin?


no and why would you expect that?


1. Where would we go on dates?


where I feel like going


2. Who is your favorite rapper?


none, rap sucks


3. Do you drink/smoke?


drink good spirits , no 40's here


4. Do wear jordans?


those are lame


5. If so What was your last pair?


6. Would you give me a lap dance?


no i do not need to hustle for my money


7. Would you buy me things?


no


8. Could we cuddle and just fall asleep together?


maybe


9. Would you kiss my neck?


sure, it is clean


10. Do you play any sports?


yup


11. If so...what?


see Lance Armstrong


12. Would you call me right after we saw eachother?


no


13. How would you rate your kisses from 1-10?


dunno


14. Favorite body part on you?


all of me


15. What would you say is the best thing about yourself?





16. Do you have any reps (ie: heartbreaker, prick, ****,player etc)?


all of the above


17. Would you give me a kiss just because?


maybe


18. Would u sleep in the same bed wit me?


hopefully so


19. Would u take me home to meet your parents?


no


20. Would u have sex with me?


yup


21. If so, whats the soonest into our relationship you'd have it?


no later than 3rd date


22. Would you tell your friends we had sex?


no





LOL
BASICS:


Name: Richard Letler


Age: 35 standard years


Location: Mars Colony


Height: 5'10


Hair (color and style): Jet black spiked


Eyes: Grey-Blue


OTHER:


Are u a virgin?


Well I use virgin wireless. But that's intentionally ironic


1. Where would we go on dates?


Definitely Olympus Mons. The skiing is great.


2. Who is your favorite rapper?


Vanilla Ice. Shoot me please.


3. Do you drink/smoke?


No smoking Yes to drinking. Yes also to exploding.


4. Do wear jordans?


Not since they caught me kidnapping Jordan. *Sigh*


5. If so What was your last pair?


There's only one Jordan.


6. Would you give me a lap dance?


I can ballroom.


7. Would you buy me things?


No. I hate giving gifts to attractive women. It demeans them.


8. Could we cuddle and just fall asleep together?


As long as I didn't have an exam in the morning


9. Would you kiss my neck?


Assuming that you passed the necessary qualifier? Yes.


10. Do you play any sports?


Depends what you mean as ';sports';


11. If so...what?


Is ice dancing a sport?


12. Would you call me right after we saw eachother?


If you wouldn't consider that stalking


13. How would you rate your kisses from 1-10?


1.2 billion.


14. Favorite body part on you?


Ear


15. What would you say is the best thing about yourself?


The fact that I am not a robot


16. Do you have any reps (ie: heartbreaker, prick, ****,player etc)?


Lunatic child


17. Would you give me a kiss just because?


Assuming you passed the test, then yes.


18. Would u sleep in the same bed wit me?


If you don't have any cooties


19. Would u take me home to meet your parents?


I'm pretty sure you've met them already.


20. Would u have sex with me?


Maybe


21. If so, whats the soonest into our relationship you'd have it?


When I am sure


22. Would you tell your friends we had sex?


I'd post it on the internet.
R U FU*KIN SERIOUS?
um fu*k no bicth
just email me more k

Should I meet my boyfriend's mother?

OK. He's not even my boyfriend. We've been on a few dates and cuddled on the couch once. We haven't had any kind of discussion about being a couple. Today he invited me to go with him to see his sister perform in a dance recital tomorrow, and I said I'd love to go. Then he e-mailed me and told me that his mother will be there, and if that makes me at all uncomfortable he'd understand if I decided not to go. He said he'd meet up with me afterward for a movie instead.





I don't know anything about his mother other than she's a smart and accomplished lady. I'm fairly smart, not as accomplished as my ';boyfriend'; yet, but not too bad for my age.





Is he being considerate or is HE uncomfortable about me meeting his mother? Should I just ask him if he's uncomfortable?





Would you feel uncomfortable about meeting your maybe-lover's mother?





Maybe he just doesn't know how to introduce me, and he's worried that the awkward introduction will put pressure on me to be a couple?





Thanks!Should I meet my boyfriend's mother?
Hes asking you because he s taking your feelings into consideration.


Yes, I would uncomfortable, but who really isn't when meeting someones mother (someone you like or love)





I think it really depends on the person and how akward they make it when they introduce their lover or potential lover. He might introduce you as a friend considering that you guys aren't official, but take that as an advantage because you will get to know his family and his relationship with his family without the pressure of being his girlfriend. It may or may not pressure the relationship depending on the family's behavior towards you, but its your life not theirs.Should I meet my boyfriend's mother?
check on this part what you said: ';Then he e-mailed me and told me that his mother will be there, and if that makes me at all uncomfortable he'd understand if I decided not to go. He said he'd meet up with me afterward for a movie instead.'; = this means that he is asking you if you will feel uncomfortable meeting with his mother at the recital (am i wrong?) and if you will feel uncomfortable then, he will understand you and would just meet you up for a movie instead. i think it's your choice to meet or not. so if i were you, i better prefer to meet his MOM and see his reactions too. you even said he is not your boyfriend and haven't discussed to be couple and he asked you if you could be with him at the recital with his MOM too. that would mean that he has something for you or he feels something for you more than just a friend. or it could be to introduce you to his MOM as a friend also. still we don't know. but have a try.


%26lt;%26gt;my guy asked me to talk to his MOM when we were talking on the phone. i felt so nervous and was sweating as i don't know what to say to his MOM and most esp i didn't expect he would introduce me to his MOM even on just a phone. but his Mom asked me to visit their place soon and wishing me best of health in which i felt really proud of myself for that and am proud of my guy that he isn't ashamed to introduce me.


%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;so have a try maybe you'll be lucky if his Mom will accept you.
ask if itsok with him. and yeah if ur not uncomfortable then go, if not tehn just watch the movie instead. and i can undestand why u would be nervous to meet her. so anyway good luck. hope all goes well :)
Go and meet her. Whats the problem? Don鈥檛 be so shy. She will not be Hitler yaar. Be at ur ease. All the best!!!
ask him--he will let you know if he's comfortable with you meeting his mom





maybe she embarasses him? you never know, so ask
well, it is a very,very good idea for you to meet his mother AND to see the relationship he has with his mother. that relation ship will reflec alot of how he'll act to a wife in the future. it's just a very good indicator
Yes, definitely meet his parents because it will give u an idea of where he's been brought up from and how and it shows you how his parents work if u no wat i mean! Listen, from my experience, my mum STILL thinks that my dad's mum is still a bit weird! lol it will happen with everyone. As long as you r keen on this guy, meet his parents! Good luck.
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  • I want him as a boyfriend...?

    I have been seeing this guy since December. He is 25 and I'm almost 21. We hang out around 2 times a week. We have sex. We go out places. We talk about our days. We watch movies. About 3 weeks ago I finally had the guts to ask him where we stood because I was getting fed up just waiting around to see what would happen. He told me he really really likes me but he got out of a 5 year relationship the beginning of November and so he thinks it is too soon to put labels on it. Well of course I was sad, mad and hurt. I stopped talking to him for a few days and then he started calling and texting me again. We went to a bunch of movies, the beach, cuddled at his apartment, etc. He told me how comfortable he feels with me and the whole ';ohh when I meet your mom blah blah blah';, etc. Yet we're still not boyfriend/girlfriend. I understand the 5 year relationship deal because when I got out of a 3 year relationship I wanted freedom for like a year. I do hang out with other guys but none relate to him...I am ready for a relationship and want him as a boyfriend... should I ask him again like if he sees us together in the future? Or just leave it and whatever happens, happens?I want him as a boyfriend...?
    id give it a couple of months, maybe until about may/june time? this gives him chance to work out what he wants :)I want him as a boyfriend...?
    As long as you don't think he is just using you for sex then just leave it and see what happens. But if you think he is just using you then ask him again and see what he says.
    you need to tell him that you really like him and you feel hurt that hes likes you but cant be your boy friend because hes still getting over someone else even though you are doing everything a couple does. so yes you need to bring it up again and tell him no he cant meet your mom because hes not your boy friend because thats weird for just a ';friend'; who has sex meet there mom.

    Boyfriend aplication?

    Copy and paste, and then fill it out

    Name:





    Age:





    Place of residency:








    Why do you want to fill this out?








    Do you wanna kiss me?








    Do you like to cuddle?








    If you had the choice of either going out and hanging with your friends..... Or spending the night with me, what would you choose?








    Pick one word to describe me:








    On our first date, where would you take me?








    If your favorite SoapOpera show was on... But so was mine and we only had one TV... Would you let me watch what I wanted, or what you wanted?








    If I was wearing really ugly clothes, would you still show me off to your friends?








    Are you controlling?








    Are you FUN?








    Do you fall in love easier than most?








    Do you have sex?








    If so how many and favorite positions?








    Do you get depressed easily?








    Pick a random color, doesn't have to be your favorite:








    What do you spend most of your time doing?








    What are your future goals?








    Do you do drugs?








    Are you spontaneous (if so give an example)?








    Would you buy me stuff?








    Would you kiss me for no reason sometimes?











    Would you let me play my music in the car.... Even if you hated it?











    Favorite music, top 5 bands?











    Are you emotional but can remain stable?











    Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic?








    Do you live up to your first impressions?








    Did you lie on any part of this?








    Are you trying to impress me?








    Anything you would like to tell me that I don't know yet?








    Now pick a word... The first word that comes to mind and write it here:Boyfriend aplication?
    Name: Dino





    Age: 44 (too old, right?)





    Place of residency: Tennessee (I swear I wear shoes, now where did I out those things?)








    Why do you want to fill this out? I thought I'd be fun. I thought it was a creative idea!








    Do you wanna kiss me? That would be nice.








    Do you like to cuddle? Yes.








    If you had the choice of either going out and hanging with your friends..... Or spending the night with me, what would you choose? Well, I hardly know you, and more importantly, you hardly ... I'd spend the night with you!








    Pick one word to describe me: sexy








    On our first date, where would you take me? ... To a horror movie so you'd grab me.








    If your favorite SoapOpera show was on... But so was mine and we only had one TV... Would you let me watch what I wanted, or what you wanted? I can learn to like yours.








    If I was wearing really ugly clothes, would you still show me off to your friends? Yeah, and I'd wear shoes to match.








    Are you controlling? Me? No. Why, what have you heard?








    Are you FUN? Very! Do you like really tall and fast rollercoasters?!








    Do you fall in love easier than most? Unfortunately








    Do you have sex? Yes, and sometimes with someone else.








    If so how many and favorite positions? I've never counted how many positions I know, including variations I'd say 12. ... Missionary (yeah, boring, but I can see you), doggy, lady on top ...








    Do you get depressed easily? Nope








    Pick a random color, doesn't have to be your favorite: red








    What do you spend most of your time doing? Well, it seems I spend a lot of time on Yahoo Answers these days.








    What are your future goals? To become a psychologist








    Do you do drugs? Nope








    Are you spontaneous (if so give an example)? Why yes I am. I'm applying to be your boyfriend over the internet.








    Would you buy me stuff? Yes, I'm very generous








    Would you kiss me for no reason sometimes? Yes I would











    Would you let me play my music in the car.... Even if you hated it? I'm sure we'd like the same music, but sure ... It's a short ride.











    Favorite music, top 5 bands? Evanescence, Keane, Jet, The Beatles, The Killers











    Are you emotional but can remain stable? Yes (I cry at movies, will that be okay?)











    Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic? You've been reading my mail, haven't you?








    Do you live up to your first impressions? I am what you see.








    Did you lie on any part of this? Nope (well, maybe the music thing)








    Are you trying to impress me? Yes, how'm doin'?








    Anything you would like to tell me that I don't know yet? Oooo, good question and so were the others, so this is tough. Um, I'm short.








    Now pick a word... The first word that comes to mind and write it here: WowBoyfriend aplication?
    im not good at filling in forms and im taken so ill pass thank you
    you are definitely very childish and immature


    especially to be asking questions about sex if you think a ';boyfriend application'; really works


    I will be nice because more than likely I am dealing with a child here


    I will tell you that people lie to get what they want and an application for a boyfriend is not the way to go
    You really need a boyfriend huh
    Yahoo answers is not a dating service. You should go to yahoo personals or other online dating service to meet your dating needs
    What are you doing?!
    To long and married - but maybe I should pass it on to my stepdaughter for her future bf's to fill out.





    Thanks for the laugh
    STOP posting this. Ever wonder why you don't have a boyfriend?
    I like the question! Call me 1478 244-1312
    Name: Jermaine





    Age: 27





    Place of residency: Florida








    Why do you want to fill this out? I'm bored!








    Do you wanna kiss me? Don't know what you look like. So I'll play it safe and say no!








    Do you like to cuddle? Yep








    If you had the choice of either going out and hanging with your friends..... Or spending the night with me, what would you choose? I'd hang out with you. I love my friends, but I like to meet new people.








    Pick one word to describe me: girl








    On our first date, where would you take me? Dinner








    If your favorite SoapOpera show was on... But so was mine and we only had one TV... Would you let me watch what I wanted, or what you wanted? Don't watch Soap Opera's, so that is all you.








    If I was wearing really ugly clothes, would you still show me off to your friends? Yeah, after you changed.








    Are you controlling? I don't think so!








    Are you FUN? Most of the time!








    Do you fall in love easier than most? No not really.








    Do you have sex? Yep








    If so how many and favorite positions? Too personal for Y/A








    Do you get depressed easily? I always try to find the bright side!








    Pick a random color, doesn't have to be your favorite: Green








    What do you spend most of your time doing? Working








    What are your future goals? To have a family one day, but I'm in no rush!








    Do you do drugs? Nope!








    Are you spontaneous (if so give an example)? When I want to be!








    Would you buy me stuff? For now, I would buy you dinner!








    Would you kiss me for no reason sometimes? If I found you attactive, Yes!











    Would you let me play my music in the car.... Even if you hated it? I could compromise!











    Favorite music, top 5 bands?


    1. John Mayer


    2.Chevelle


    3. Evanescence


    4. Staind


    5. Fall Out Boys











    Are you emotional but can remain stable? I've made it this long. So, yes!











    Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic? Not anymore!








    Do you live up to your first impressions? Not sure what I give off as a first impression.








    Did you lie on any part of this? Nope








    Are you trying to impress me? Nope








    Anything you would like to tell me that I don't know yet? I may be little too old for you, but you would already know that!








    Now pick a word... The first word that comes to mind and write it here: Myspace!
    Name: Randy





    Age:28





    Place of residency: currently deployed at Al Dhafra AB UAE








    Why do you want to fill this out? Curious








    Do you wanna kiss me? Well, see








    Do you like to cuddle? Yes








    If you had the choice of either going out and hanging with your friends..... Or spending the night with me, what would you choose?


    it depends on the mood of the situation and the situation





    Pick one word to describe me: I don't know you








    On our first date, where would you take me? Probably dinner and a movie of your choice








    If your favorite SoapOpera show was on... But so was mine and we only had one TV... Would you let me watch what I wanted, or what you wanted?


    you wuld watch yours of course





    If I was wearing really ugly clothes, would you still show me off to your friends?





    yeah I don't care about what other peole think


    Are you controlling?


    sometimes





    Are you FUN? Yes








    Do you fall in love easier than most? It usually takes a while but I guess it depends on the person








    Do you have sex? Now no due to the fact I'm sorrunded by dudes








    If so how many and favorite positions? Reverse cowgirl








    Do you get depressed easily? No but I get bored easily especially nowdays...








    Pick a random color, doesn't have to be your favorite: black








    What do you spend most of your time doing? Fighting the war on terror in the desert








    What are your future goals? To someday marry a good woman, and have a nice family








    Do you do drugs? Only what the airforce gives me








    Are you spontaneous (if so give an example)? On the job you have no time to spend trying to figure out what to do next, I also practice that on my off duty time








    Would you buy me stuff? If there was an occasion calling for it YES








    Would you kiss me for no reason sometimes? Absolutely











    Would you let me play my music in the car.... Even if you hated it?


    if I'm on a good mood








    Favorite music, top 5 bands?


    fall out boy, gorrilaz, panic at the disco, nickelback, drowning pool








    Are you emotional but can remain stable? I have emotions and I'm always stable











    Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic? No if it doesn't work out we can still be friends








    Do you live up to your first impressions? Yes








    Did you lie on any part of this? No, what you see is what you get.








    Are you trying to impress me? If I say no I would be lying so a little of both








    Anything you would like to tell me that I don't know yet? Was born in colombia 5'10'; 180 lbs built, air force fireman
    are u forrreal go and meet some people at clubs mall etc...
    try going to yahoo personals
    this is the stupidest question ive ever seen on yahoo answers.


    u killed it.





    GET A LIFE.!

    What schould u do when you have fealings for your best friend but she only see you as her best friend?

    yeah i need to know what to do here i have this girl that is my number 1 best friend and she only sees me as one of her best friends like her big brouther but i have fealings for her and have told her she says i am cute but she keeps falling for this type of dl realtionship with guys she says she is ready to have a real man in her life and have a real realtionship and i have tryed and tryed to make my fealings for her go away but that wont this is the ferst girl i have had these fealings for since my ex my high school sweet heart and she tells me that if a girl cant accpect me for who i am thin i dont need her bt yet at the same time she is picky about guys looks very picky in fact and yet she said this to me from myspace .com


    Would you kiss me?


    []With Tongue []Yes [x]No []Maybe


    i only see you as a friend





    Would you makeout with me?


    []Hell Yea []Yes [x]No []Maybe []already have ;)


    i only see you as a friend





    Would you sleep with me?


    []In an instant! [] Yes [x] No []Maybe


    i only see you as a friend





    Am I attractive?


    [] Heck no []hot as Hell []Fine [x]Cute []Okay []Ugly!





    Would you love me?


    []To death []Yes []No [x]As a friend []Already do





    Do you think I'm a virgin?


    [x]Yes []No





    I look like..





    [ ] A player


    [ ] a wife/husband


    [ ] One time thing


    [ ] Next bf/gf


    [x] A friend


    [ ] A friend with benefits


    [ ] A possibility


    [ ] A loser


    [ ] A stud





    If you saw me for the first time would you talk to me?


    [x]Yes []No []maybe





    Would you rather.. ??





    [ ] Hook up with me


    [ ] Cuddle with me


    [ ] Date me


    [x] Friends


    [ ] Friends with benefits


    [ ] marry me


    [ ] have sex








    On a scale of 1-10 (10 being the highest), rate me..


    []1 []2 []3 []4 []5 []6 []7 []8 []9 [x]10


    cause your the greatest friend anyone can ask for





    What would you want me to be to you?


    [x] Friend


    [ ] Girlfriend/Boyfriend


    [ ] Friend with benefits


    [ ] Husband/Wife





    Would you give me a lap dance?


    []Hell Yea []Yes []No [x]Maybe








    If you had a chance to tell me something, what would it be?


    --Put here-- cause your the greatest friend anyone can ask for. im glad we met. i wouldnt trade ya for anything





    Are you going to repost this so i can answer for you?


    [x]Yes []No





    DONT BE SHY TELL ME THE TRUTH HOW YOU REALLY FEAL ABOUT ME OK IF YOU ARE 100% TRUE WITH ME I WILL BE 100% TRUE WITH YOU AND I EXPECT ALL OF MY FEMALE FRIENDSTO RESPOND BACK TO ME EVEN MY SISTERS AND BEST FRIENDS AND THAY KNOW WHO THAY ARE





    Girls repost this as ';BOYS ONLY';


    boys repost this as ';GIRLS ONLY';





    Just click reply and fill in the blanks


    ok now what do i do here um i have tryed to get ride of the fealings that i have for her but thay just wont go awayWhat schould u do when you have fealings for your best friend but she only see you as her best friend?
    i'm in a similar situation with one of my best guy friends, except the quiz bit, I find the easiest thing to do is move on, I know it sounds really horrible but from the answers in the quiz she likes you but as a friend and maybe that will never change. The worse thing is it'll take time, just try not to let your feelings effect your friendship.


    The alternative is to make her like you, be charming and be there when she needs you, don't act jealous and be yourself.


    Good Luck!What schould u do when you have fealings for your best friend but she only see you as her best friend?
    no





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  • Guys, would you choose your best friend (female) or girlfriend in this situation?

    Sorry so long, but I'm an emotional wreck over this. I need your opinions after reading this PLEASE!!





    It's hard for me to believe that he just stopped caring about me or that he never did. We have spent every day together for the last four years (up until a couple of months ago when he moved). We used to always take out-of-town weekend trips with a group of friends, and he and I always shared a bed. We never hooked up or even kissed. Sometimes we'd cuddle, but mostly, we just talked until we fell asleep. He told me once that I was the only girl he could lay in bed like that with and not expect anything physical. He told me that I was the only girl he respected enough not to try to cross that line with. I don't know if that's true, but I imagine that it was. He seemed very sincere in the context of the conversation, and we were insanely close in general. In fact, last year (our last year of college), we actually rented a house together. We cooked dinner together in the evenings, we went out for lunch together every day, and we both slept in the living room so that we could stay up together. We talked to each other about everything, and we always promised to always take care of eachother and remain close--even once we both got married. (Secretly, I kind of always thought he and I would wind up together anyway. I wasn't quite ready to persue a relationship like that with him yet, so I never told him I had romantic feelings for him).





    Anyway, during the time that we lived together, he started seeing someone, and the two of them became very serious very quickly. I feel like she swept him right out from under me. I know he was never my ';boyfriend,'; but he and I were so close. She lived an hour away (in his hometown), so all of a sudden, he was making trips out to see her two or three times a week, and she was making trips to the house once or twice a week. He and I were barely spending any time together right before he moved out. He said he moved back to his hometown because of a job he couldn't turn down, but secretly, I think he'd been looking for a job there because of his gf. (he'd never admit that to me because he always wanted to make me feel equally worthy of his time).





    anyway, since he moved out two months ago, we've seen eachother twice, and both times, he had his gf with him. every time I try to call him, he sends a texts saying that he doesn't have signal at his new house and asking whats up. I know he doesn't get signal there, but if I were in his position, I'd make time to drive out to a place where i had signal and give me a phone call. it's the very least he could do since we suddenly never see eachother.





    Our relationship used to be so intimate. For valentines day, which was just months ago, he bought me flowers and wrote the sweetest card to me about how much he loved me, what a great team we were, and how he hoped that things would never change between us. he had this gf at the time too. i just have a hard time believing that he put this much effort--4 years of effort--into a lie, and I also have a hard time believing that he suddenly doesn't care for me. Do you think that maybe he's just afraid to stand up to his gf about hanging out with me? It hurts me so bad to think that he has abandoned me after all we've been through.





    what do you think his deal is?Guys, would you choose your best friend (female) or girlfriend in this situation?
    Wow, what a horrible situation you've got!





    Firstly, I think that you can't just blame this sudden distance on his girlfriend. I have a male best friend and we were pretty much the same as you and your best friend here. He once told me we were going to get married because I was the only one who understood him well enough to make such a commitment to him. then he went off to University, and he's now settled down with a girlfriend he thinks the world of.





    He stopped calling every day, he stopped emailing me, he stopped sending me gifts, he stopped most contact apart from the occasional facebook message!!


    I was devastated.





    But he's so happy. I can;t be angry with him for that. And you shouldn't be.





    I suggest you find yourself a special someone that loves you more than he ever did. Someone who won't up and leave you.





    You deserve happiness and your friend probably doesn't know that he's hurt you as much as he is.





    And remember, he'll need you before you'll need him. If his girlfriend goes off with someone else, you'll be his first port of call.





    That's what BEST FRIENDS are there for :D





    Peace out xGuys, would you choose your best friend (female) or girlfriend in this situation?
    He is right what he is doing, sorry to say. I'll keep this short (or try to). You two obviously have intimate feelings for each other: Sleeping together, renting a house together, valentines day etc. However nothing (for some reason) happened between the two, he probably lost hope in you two being together so got a girlfriend. Her girlfriend is probably jealous of the close relationships you have, honestly I'm not surprised because you two seem like you could have a very good relationship (yet neither of you made a move). Since her girlfriend is jealous, your best friend had to lessen the amount of contact you two had. I think you are really upset because basically his girlfriend has replaced you in your best friend's eyes, I don't blame you for being upset.





    All you can see is tell him that you miss him and talk to him about how you feel because it will make you feel better. DON'T TRY TO BREAK THEM UP! Just accept the fact that those two are together and if he comes back to you don't be mad. Spend your time doing other things.





    Good luck! No idea if I helped, but I try.