So when exactly did you plan on calling me last night and telling me you werent going to come pick me up? We spend everyday together and i thought it would be nice to let you go out and hang out with some guys and have time away from me. Thats why when you invited me to go to the get together I said ';No you go have fun. You need time away from me every once and again.'; You thought that was cool of me so you went out. BUT you promised me you would come back and get me so that we could spend the night together and you could take me to work in the morning considering you totalled my car being a dumb *** sliding on the ice. We were supposed to watch movies, cuddle, and talk about some things that I realy needed someone to vent with. You dont let me hang out with my friends.. you dont let me go out and do things.. so that makes you my only friend.. the only person I have to talk to and hang out with. So last night when i was sitting by the door waiting for your call for 2 hours i realized how much of a dick head you are. You told me thirty minutes. I called you and you were talking to me like a was some trash off the side of the street and not your girlfriend who youve been with for a year and a half. Really? I Depended on you to be the one to wake up with me this morning and take me to work. I depended on you to not lie to me and tell me you were going for thirty minutes and then stay for 4 hours. Not to mention when I called your phone all i could hear was girls screaming in the background and loud music.. at one point you were even going down 92 with them in your car. All while i was at home waiting for you. I mean if you wanted to hangout with those people for a long time thats fine but you could have atleast given me a courtesy call to let me know i could go ahead and go to sleep and not wait on you. after ignoring my calls for a long period of time you finally answered the phone and when i told you i was going to your dads to gather up ALL of my things you didnt care. You didnt try to stop me. You just met these people this night and the guy who invited you has only been your friend for a month yet you were putting all of them before me. I was crying and you didnt give two shits. As soon as someone else came along who wanted to chill with you you left me in the dirt. So i went to your dads and i got ALL of my stuff. You dont know how to treat me. The world always has to revolve around you and im sick of it. I do EVERYTHING for you. I bought you a 300 dollar christmas gift when the one you got for me was 150. I buy your food for you all the time considering you dont have a job and i do. I help you with gas. I make your protein shakes for you, i make your bed and occasionally do your laudry. When you have a stressful day i rub your back for you and things and THIS is what i get in return. YOu called me 4 times last night and didnt say anything when i answered the phone.. you just let me hear those trashy sluts in the back ground and your loud music. You will understand one day that you made a big mistake. A VERY BIG MISTAKE. those girls arent going to be the ones doing **** for you and at this point neither am i. Im done. So when you try calling me today and the next days to come.. youll get a big **** YOU from me. I will be busy. Im done with you.. i cant keep letting people walk all over me. especially someone like you who i put before EVERYONE! My friends, my family.. and the second an AQUANTAINCE wants attention you basically forget who i am. Im NOT just some girl and i wont be treated like SOME girl.My boyfriend ****** up and this is my letter to him. Comment pls.?
Its a long and angry email. It seems that he don't appreciate what u've done for him. Does he truly loves u? Sorry to say this, I doubt it. Find time to talk to him face to face and sort things out.. Whatever the outcome will be, accept and respect. :)
Friday, August 20, 2010
BoyFriend Application (they're are three more questions e-mail me if you want them) I'll e-mail you!?
tell me....
BASICS:
Name:
Age:
Location:
Height:
Hair (color and style):
Eyes:
OTHER:
Are u a virgin?
1. Where would we go on dates?
2. Who is your favorite rapper?
3. Do you drink/smoke?
4. Do wear jordans?
5. If so What was your last pair?
6. Would you give me a lap dance?
7. Would you buy me things?
8. Could we cuddle and just fall asleep together?
9. Would you kiss my neck?
10. Do you play any sports?
11. If so...what?
12. Would you call me right after we saw eachother?
13. How would you rate your kisses from 1-10?
14. Favorite body part on you?
15. What would you say is the best thing about yourself?
16. Do you have any reps (ie: heartbreaker, prick, slut,player etc)?
17. Would you give me a kiss just because?
18. Would u sleep in the same bed wit me?
19. Would u take me home to meet your parents?
20. Would u have sex with me?
21. If so, whats the soonest into our relationship you'd have it?
22. Would you tell your friends we had sex?BoyFriend Application (they're are three more questions e-mail me if you want them) I'll e-mail you!?
r u that desperate?BoyFriend Application (they're are three more questions e-mail me if you want them) I'll e-mail you!?
BASICS:
Name:
Age:
Location:
Height:
Hair (color and style):
Eyes:
OTHER:
Are u a virgin?
no and why would you expect that?
1. Where would we go on dates?
where I feel like going
2. Who is your favorite rapper?
none, rap sucks
3. Do you drink/smoke?
drink good spirits , no 40's here
4. Do wear jordans?
those are lame
5. If so What was your last pair?
6. Would you give me a lap dance?
no i do not need to hustle for my money
7. Would you buy me things?
no
8. Could we cuddle and just fall asleep together?
maybe
9. Would you kiss my neck?
sure, it is clean
10. Do you play any sports?
yup
11. If so...what?
see Lance Armstrong
12. Would you call me right after we saw eachother?
no
13. How would you rate your kisses from 1-10?
dunno
14. Favorite body part on you?
all of me
15. What would you say is the best thing about yourself?
16. Do you have any reps (ie: heartbreaker, prick, ****,player etc)?
all of the above
17. Would you give me a kiss just because?
maybe
18. Would u sleep in the same bed wit me?
hopefully so
19. Would u take me home to meet your parents?
no
20. Would u have sex with me?
yup
21. If so, whats the soonest into our relationship you'd have it?
no later than 3rd date
22. Would you tell your friends we had sex?
no
LOL
BASICS:
Name: Richard Letler
Age: 35 standard years
Location: Mars Colony
Height: 5'10
Hair (color and style): Jet black spiked
Eyes: Grey-Blue
OTHER:
Are u a virgin?
Well I use virgin wireless. But that's intentionally ironic
1. Where would we go on dates?
Definitely Olympus Mons. The skiing is great.
2. Who is your favorite rapper?
Vanilla Ice. Shoot me please.
3. Do you drink/smoke?
No smoking Yes to drinking. Yes also to exploding.
4. Do wear jordans?
Not since they caught me kidnapping Jordan. *Sigh*
5. If so What was your last pair?
There's only one Jordan.
6. Would you give me a lap dance?
I can ballroom.
7. Would you buy me things?
No. I hate giving gifts to attractive women. It demeans them.
8. Could we cuddle and just fall asleep together?
As long as I didn't have an exam in the morning
9. Would you kiss my neck?
Assuming that you passed the necessary qualifier? Yes.
10. Do you play any sports?
Depends what you mean as ';sports';
11. If so...what?
Is ice dancing a sport?
12. Would you call me right after we saw eachother?
If you wouldn't consider that stalking
13. How would you rate your kisses from 1-10?
1.2 billion.
14. Favorite body part on you?
Ear
15. What would you say is the best thing about yourself?
The fact that I am not a robot
16. Do you have any reps (ie: heartbreaker, prick, ****,player etc)?
Lunatic child
17. Would you give me a kiss just because?
Assuming you passed the test, then yes.
18. Would u sleep in the same bed wit me?
If you don't have any cooties
19. Would u take me home to meet your parents?
I'm pretty sure you've met them already.
20. Would u have sex with me?
Maybe
21. If so, whats the soonest into our relationship you'd have it?
When I am sure
22. Would you tell your friends we had sex?
I'd post it on the internet.
R U FU*KIN SERIOUS?
um fu*k no bicth
just email me more k
BASICS:
Name:
Age:
Location:
Height:
Hair (color and style):
Eyes:
OTHER:
Are u a virgin?
1. Where would we go on dates?
2. Who is your favorite rapper?
3. Do you drink/smoke?
4. Do wear jordans?
5. If so What was your last pair?
6. Would you give me a lap dance?
7. Would you buy me things?
8. Could we cuddle and just fall asleep together?
9. Would you kiss my neck?
10. Do you play any sports?
11. If so...what?
12. Would you call me right after we saw eachother?
13. How would you rate your kisses from 1-10?
14. Favorite body part on you?
15. What would you say is the best thing about yourself?
16. Do you have any reps (ie: heartbreaker, prick, slut,player etc)?
17. Would you give me a kiss just because?
18. Would u sleep in the same bed wit me?
19. Would u take me home to meet your parents?
20. Would u have sex with me?
21. If so, whats the soonest into our relationship you'd have it?
22. Would you tell your friends we had sex?BoyFriend Application (they're are three more questions e-mail me if you want them) I'll e-mail you!?
r u that desperate?BoyFriend Application (they're are three more questions e-mail me if you want them) I'll e-mail you!?
BASICS:
Name:
Age:
Location:
Height:
Hair (color and style):
Eyes:
OTHER:
Are u a virgin?
no and why would you expect that?
1. Where would we go on dates?
where I feel like going
2. Who is your favorite rapper?
none, rap sucks
3. Do you drink/smoke?
drink good spirits , no 40's here
4. Do wear jordans?
those are lame
5. If so What was your last pair?
6. Would you give me a lap dance?
no i do not need to hustle for my money
7. Would you buy me things?
no
8. Could we cuddle and just fall asleep together?
maybe
9. Would you kiss my neck?
sure, it is clean
10. Do you play any sports?
yup
11. If so...what?
see Lance Armstrong
12. Would you call me right after we saw eachother?
no
13. How would you rate your kisses from 1-10?
dunno
14. Favorite body part on you?
all of me
15. What would you say is the best thing about yourself?
16. Do you have any reps (ie: heartbreaker, prick, ****,player etc)?
all of the above
17. Would you give me a kiss just because?
maybe
18. Would u sleep in the same bed wit me?
hopefully so
19. Would u take me home to meet your parents?
no
20. Would u have sex with me?
yup
21. If so, whats the soonest into our relationship you'd have it?
no later than 3rd date
22. Would you tell your friends we had sex?
no
LOL
BASICS:
Name: Richard Letler
Age: 35 standard years
Location: Mars Colony
Height: 5'10
Hair (color and style): Jet black spiked
Eyes: Grey-Blue
OTHER:
Are u a virgin?
Well I use virgin wireless. But that's intentionally ironic
1. Where would we go on dates?
Definitely Olympus Mons. The skiing is great.
2. Who is your favorite rapper?
Vanilla Ice. Shoot me please.
3. Do you drink/smoke?
No smoking Yes to drinking. Yes also to exploding.
4. Do wear jordans?
Not since they caught me kidnapping Jordan. *Sigh*
5. If so What was your last pair?
There's only one Jordan.
6. Would you give me a lap dance?
I can ballroom.
7. Would you buy me things?
No. I hate giving gifts to attractive women. It demeans them.
8. Could we cuddle and just fall asleep together?
As long as I didn't have an exam in the morning
9. Would you kiss my neck?
Assuming that you passed the necessary qualifier? Yes.
10. Do you play any sports?
Depends what you mean as ';sports';
11. If so...what?
Is ice dancing a sport?
12. Would you call me right after we saw eachother?
If you wouldn't consider that stalking
13. How would you rate your kisses from 1-10?
1.2 billion.
14. Favorite body part on you?
Ear
15. What would you say is the best thing about yourself?
The fact that I am not a robot
16. Do you have any reps (ie: heartbreaker, prick, ****,player etc)?
Lunatic child
17. Would you give me a kiss just because?
Assuming you passed the test, then yes.
18. Would u sleep in the same bed wit me?
If you don't have any cooties
19. Would u take me home to meet your parents?
I'm pretty sure you've met them already.
20. Would u have sex with me?
Maybe
21. If so, whats the soonest into our relationship you'd have it?
When I am sure
22. Would you tell your friends we had sex?
I'd post it on the internet.
R U FU*KIN SERIOUS?
um fu*k no bicth
just email me more k
Should I meet my boyfriend's mother?
OK. He's not even my boyfriend. We've been on a few dates and cuddled on the couch once. We haven't had any kind of discussion about being a couple. Today he invited me to go with him to see his sister perform in a dance recital tomorrow, and I said I'd love to go. Then he e-mailed me and told me that his mother will be there, and if that makes me at all uncomfortable he'd understand if I decided not to go. He said he'd meet up with me afterward for a movie instead.
I don't know anything about his mother other than she's a smart and accomplished lady. I'm fairly smart, not as accomplished as my ';boyfriend'; yet, but not too bad for my age.
Is he being considerate or is HE uncomfortable about me meeting his mother? Should I just ask him if he's uncomfortable?
Would you feel uncomfortable about meeting your maybe-lover's mother?
Maybe he just doesn't know how to introduce me, and he's worried that the awkward introduction will put pressure on me to be a couple?
Thanks!Should I meet my boyfriend's mother?
Hes asking you because he s taking your feelings into consideration.
Yes, I would uncomfortable, but who really isn't when meeting someones mother (someone you like or love)
I think it really depends on the person and how akward they make it when they introduce their lover or potential lover. He might introduce you as a friend considering that you guys aren't official, but take that as an advantage because you will get to know his family and his relationship with his family without the pressure of being his girlfriend. It may or may not pressure the relationship depending on the family's behavior towards you, but its your life not theirs.Should I meet my boyfriend's mother?
check on this part what you said: ';Then he e-mailed me and told me that his mother will be there, and if that makes me at all uncomfortable he'd understand if I decided not to go. He said he'd meet up with me afterward for a movie instead.'; = this means that he is asking you if you will feel uncomfortable meeting with his mother at the recital (am i wrong?) and if you will feel uncomfortable then, he will understand you and would just meet you up for a movie instead. i think it's your choice to meet or not. so if i were you, i better prefer to meet his MOM and see his reactions too. you even said he is not your boyfriend and haven't discussed to be couple and he asked you if you could be with him at the recital with his MOM too. that would mean that he has something for you or he feels something for you more than just a friend. or it could be to introduce you to his MOM as a friend also. still we don't know. but have a try.
%26lt;%26gt;my guy asked me to talk to his MOM when we were talking on the phone. i felt so nervous and was sweating as i don't know what to say to his MOM and most esp i didn't expect he would introduce me to his MOM even on just a phone. but his Mom asked me to visit their place soon and wishing me best of health in which i felt really proud of myself for that and am proud of my guy that he isn't ashamed to introduce me.
%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;so have a try maybe you'll be lucky if his Mom will accept you.
ask if itsok with him. and yeah if ur not uncomfortable then go, if not tehn just watch the movie instead. and i can undestand why u would be nervous to meet her. so anyway good luck. hope all goes well :)
Go and meet her. Whats the problem? Don鈥檛 be so shy. She will not be Hitler yaar. Be at ur ease. All the best!!!
ask him--he will let you know if he's comfortable with you meeting his mom
maybe she embarasses him? you never know, so ask
well, it is a very,very good idea for you to meet his mother AND to see the relationship he has with his mother. that relation ship will reflec alot of how he'll act to a wife in the future. it's just a very good indicator
Yes, definitely meet his parents because it will give u an idea of where he's been brought up from and how and it shows you how his parents work if u no wat i mean! Listen, from my experience, my mum STILL thinks that my dad's mum is still a bit weird! lol it will happen with everyone. As long as you r keen on this guy, meet his parents! Good luck.graphics for myspace skin care
I don't know anything about his mother other than she's a smart and accomplished lady. I'm fairly smart, not as accomplished as my ';boyfriend'; yet, but not too bad for my age.
Is he being considerate or is HE uncomfortable about me meeting his mother? Should I just ask him if he's uncomfortable?
Would you feel uncomfortable about meeting your maybe-lover's mother?
Maybe he just doesn't know how to introduce me, and he's worried that the awkward introduction will put pressure on me to be a couple?
Thanks!Should I meet my boyfriend's mother?
Hes asking you because he s taking your feelings into consideration.
Yes, I would uncomfortable, but who really isn't when meeting someones mother (someone you like or love)
I think it really depends on the person and how akward they make it when they introduce their lover or potential lover. He might introduce you as a friend considering that you guys aren't official, but take that as an advantage because you will get to know his family and his relationship with his family without the pressure of being his girlfriend. It may or may not pressure the relationship depending on the family's behavior towards you, but its your life not theirs.Should I meet my boyfriend's mother?
check on this part what you said: ';Then he e-mailed me and told me that his mother will be there, and if that makes me at all uncomfortable he'd understand if I decided not to go. He said he'd meet up with me afterward for a movie instead.'; = this means that he is asking you if you will feel uncomfortable meeting with his mother at the recital (am i wrong?) and if you will feel uncomfortable then, he will understand you and would just meet you up for a movie instead. i think it's your choice to meet or not. so if i were you, i better prefer to meet his MOM and see his reactions too. you even said he is not your boyfriend and haven't discussed to be couple and he asked you if you could be with him at the recital with his MOM too. that would mean that he has something for you or he feels something for you more than just a friend. or it could be to introduce you to his MOM as a friend also. still we don't know. but have a try.
%26lt;%26gt;my guy asked me to talk to his MOM when we were talking on the phone. i felt so nervous and was sweating as i don't know what to say to his MOM and most esp i didn't expect he would introduce me to his MOM even on just a phone. but his Mom asked me to visit their place soon and wishing me best of health in which i felt really proud of myself for that and am proud of my guy that he isn't ashamed to introduce me.
%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;so have a try maybe you'll be lucky if his Mom will accept you.
ask if itsok with him. and yeah if ur not uncomfortable then go, if not tehn just watch the movie instead. and i can undestand why u would be nervous to meet her. so anyway good luck. hope all goes well :)
Go and meet her. Whats the problem? Don鈥檛 be so shy. She will not be Hitler yaar. Be at ur ease. All the best!!!
ask him--he will let you know if he's comfortable with you meeting his mom
maybe she embarasses him? you never know, so ask
well, it is a very,very good idea for you to meet his mother AND to see the relationship he has with his mother. that relation ship will reflec alot of how he'll act to a wife in the future. it's just a very good indicator
Yes, definitely meet his parents because it will give u an idea of where he's been brought up from and how and it shows you how his parents work if u no wat i mean! Listen, from my experience, my mum STILL thinks that my dad's mum is still a bit weird! lol it will happen with everyone. As long as you r keen on this guy, meet his parents! Good luck.
I want him as a boyfriend...?
I have been seeing this guy since December. He is 25 and I'm almost 21. We hang out around 2 times a week. We have sex. We go out places. We talk about our days. We watch movies. About 3 weeks ago I finally had the guts to ask him where we stood because I was getting fed up just waiting around to see what would happen. He told me he really really likes me but he got out of a 5 year relationship the beginning of November and so he thinks it is too soon to put labels on it. Well of course I was sad, mad and hurt. I stopped talking to him for a few days and then he started calling and texting me again. We went to a bunch of movies, the beach, cuddled at his apartment, etc. He told me how comfortable he feels with me and the whole ';ohh when I meet your mom blah blah blah';, etc. Yet we're still not boyfriend/girlfriend. I understand the 5 year relationship deal because when I got out of a 3 year relationship I wanted freedom for like a year. I do hang out with other guys but none relate to him...I am ready for a relationship and want him as a boyfriend... should I ask him again like if he sees us together in the future? Or just leave it and whatever happens, happens?I want him as a boyfriend...?
id give it a couple of months, maybe until about may/june time? this gives him chance to work out what he wants :)I want him as a boyfriend...?
As long as you don't think he is just using you for sex then just leave it and see what happens. But if you think he is just using you then ask him again and see what he says.
you need to tell him that you really like him and you feel hurt that hes likes you but cant be your boy friend because hes still getting over someone else even though you are doing everything a couple does. so yes you need to bring it up again and tell him no he cant meet your mom because hes not your boy friend because thats weird for just a ';friend'; who has sex meet there mom.
id give it a couple of months, maybe until about may/june time? this gives him chance to work out what he wants :)I want him as a boyfriend...?
As long as you don't think he is just using you for sex then just leave it and see what happens. But if you think he is just using you then ask him again and see what he says.
you need to tell him that you really like him and you feel hurt that hes likes you but cant be your boy friend because hes still getting over someone else even though you are doing everything a couple does. so yes you need to bring it up again and tell him no he cant meet your mom because hes not your boy friend because thats weird for just a ';friend'; who has sex meet there mom.
Boyfriend aplication?
Copy and paste, and then fill it out
Name:
Age:
Place of residency:
Why do you want to fill this out?
Do you wanna kiss me?
Do you like to cuddle?
If you had the choice of either going out and hanging with your friends..... Or spending the night with me, what would you choose?
Pick one word to describe me:
On our first date, where would you take me?
If your favorite SoapOpera show was on... But so was mine and we only had one TV... Would you let me watch what I wanted, or what you wanted?
If I was wearing really ugly clothes, would you still show me off to your friends?
Are you controlling?
Are you FUN?
Do you fall in love easier than most?
Do you have sex?
If so how many and favorite positions?
Do you get depressed easily?
Pick a random color, doesn't have to be your favorite:
What do you spend most of your time doing?
What are your future goals?
Do you do drugs?
Are you spontaneous (if so give an example)?
Would you buy me stuff?
Would you kiss me for no reason sometimes?
Would you let me play my music in the car.... Even if you hated it?
Favorite music, top 5 bands?
Are you emotional but can remain stable?
Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic?
Do you live up to your first impressions?
Did you lie on any part of this?
Are you trying to impress me?
Anything you would like to tell me that I don't know yet?
Now pick a word... The first word that comes to mind and write it here:Boyfriend aplication?
Name: Dino
Age: 44 (too old, right?)
Place of residency: Tennessee (I swear I wear shoes, now where did I out those things?)
Why do you want to fill this out? I thought I'd be fun. I thought it was a creative idea!
Do you wanna kiss me? That would be nice.
Do you like to cuddle? Yes.
If you had the choice of either going out and hanging with your friends..... Or spending the night with me, what would you choose? Well, I hardly know you, and more importantly, you hardly ... I'd spend the night with you!
Pick one word to describe me: sexy
On our first date, where would you take me? ... To a horror movie so you'd grab me.
If your favorite SoapOpera show was on... But so was mine and we only had one TV... Would you let me watch what I wanted, or what you wanted? I can learn to like yours.
If I was wearing really ugly clothes, would you still show me off to your friends? Yeah, and I'd wear shoes to match.
Are you controlling? Me? No. Why, what have you heard?
Are you FUN? Very! Do you like really tall and fast rollercoasters?!
Do you fall in love easier than most? Unfortunately
Do you have sex? Yes, and sometimes with someone else.
If so how many and favorite positions? I've never counted how many positions I know, including variations I'd say 12. ... Missionary (yeah, boring, but I can see you), doggy, lady on top ...
Do you get depressed easily? Nope
Pick a random color, doesn't have to be your favorite: red
What do you spend most of your time doing? Well, it seems I spend a lot of time on Yahoo Answers these days.
What are your future goals? To become a psychologist
Do you do drugs? Nope
Are you spontaneous (if so give an example)? Why yes I am. I'm applying to be your boyfriend over the internet.
Would you buy me stuff? Yes, I'm very generous
Would you kiss me for no reason sometimes? Yes I would
Would you let me play my music in the car.... Even if you hated it? I'm sure we'd like the same music, but sure ... It's a short ride.
Favorite music, top 5 bands? Evanescence, Keane, Jet, The Beatles, The Killers
Are you emotional but can remain stable? Yes (I cry at movies, will that be okay?)
Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic? You've been reading my mail, haven't you?
Do you live up to your first impressions? I am what you see.
Did you lie on any part of this? Nope (well, maybe the music thing)
Are you trying to impress me? Yes, how'm doin'?
Anything you would like to tell me that I don't know yet? Oooo, good question and so were the others, so this is tough. Um, I'm short.
Now pick a word... The first word that comes to mind and write it here: WowBoyfriend aplication?
im not good at filling in forms and im taken so ill pass thank you
you are definitely very childish and immature
especially to be asking questions about sex if you think a ';boyfriend application'; really works
I will be nice because more than likely I am dealing with a child here
I will tell you that people lie to get what they want and an application for a boyfriend is not the way to go
You really need a boyfriend huh
Yahoo answers is not a dating service. You should go to yahoo personals or other online dating service to meet your dating needs
What are you doing?!
To long and married - but maybe I should pass it on to my stepdaughter for her future bf's to fill out.
Thanks for the laugh
STOP posting this. Ever wonder why you don't have a boyfriend?
I like the question! Call me 1478 244-1312
Name: Jermaine
Age: 27
Place of residency: Florida
Why do you want to fill this out? I'm bored!
Do you wanna kiss me? Don't know what you look like. So I'll play it safe and say no!
Do you like to cuddle? Yep
If you had the choice of either going out and hanging with your friends..... Or spending the night with me, what would you choose? I'd hang out with you. I love my friends, but I like to meet new people.
Pick one word to describe me: girl
On our first date, where would you take me? Dinner
If your favorite SoapOpera show was on... But so was mine and we only had one TV... Would you let me watch what I wanted, or what you wanted? Don't watch Soap Opera's, so that is all you.
If I was wearing really ugly clothes, would you still show me off to your friends? Yeah, after you changed.
Are you controlling? I don't think so!
Are you FUN? Most of the time!
Do you fall in love easier than most? No not really.
Do you have sex? Yep
If so how many and favorite positions? Too personal for Y/A
Do you get depressed easily? I always try to find the bright side!
Pick a random color, doesn't have to be your favorite: Green
What do you spend most of your time doing? Working
What are your future goals? To have a family one day, but I'm in no rush!
Do you do drugs? Nope!
Are you spontaneous (if so give an example)? When I want to be!
Would you buy me stuff? For now, I would buy you dinner!
Would you kiss me for no reason sometimes? If I found you attactive, Yes!
Would you let me play my music in the car.... Even if you hated it? I could compromise!
Favorite music, top 5 bands?
1. John Mayer
2.Chevelle
3. Evanescence
4. Staind
5. Fall Out Boys
Are you emotional but can remain stable? I've made it this long. So, yes!
Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic? Not anymore!
Do you live up to your first impressions? Not sure what I give off as a first impression.
Did you lie on any part of this? Nope
Are you trying to impress me? Nope
Anything you would like to tell me that I don't know yet? I may be little too old for you, but you would already know that!
Now pick a word... The first word that comes to mind and write it here: Myspace!
Name: Randy
Age:28
Place of residency: currently deployed at Al Dhafra AB UAE
Why do you want to fill this out? Curious
Do you wanna kiss me? Well, see
Do you like to cuddle? Yes
If you had the choice of either going out and hanging with your friends..... Or spending the night with me, what would you choose?
it depends on the mood of the situation and the situation
Pick one word to describe me: I don't know you
On our first date, where would you take me? Probably dinner and a movie of your choice
If your favorite SoapOpera show was on... But so was mine and we only had one TV... Would you let me watch what I wanted, or what you wanted?
you wuld watch yours of course
If I was wearing really ugly clothes, would you still show me off to your friends?
yeah I don't care about what other peole think
Are you controlling?
sometimes
Are you FUN? Yes
Do you fall in love easier than most? It usually takes a while but I guess it depends on the person
Do you have sex? Now no due to the fact I'm sorrunded by dudes
If so how many and favorite positions? Reverse cowgirl
Do you get depressed easily? No but I get bored easily especially nowdays...
Pick a random color, doesn't have to be your favorite: black
What do you spend most of your time doing? Fighting the war on terror in the desert
What are your future goals? To someday marry a good woman, and have a nice family
Do you do drugs? Only what the airforce gives me
Are you spontaneous (if so give an example)? On the job you have no time to spend trying to figure out what to do next, I also practice that on my off duty time
Would you buy me stuff? If there was an occasion calling for it YES
Would you kiss me for no reason sometimes? Absolutely
Would you let me play my music in the car.... Even if you hated it?
if I'm on a good mood
Favorite music, top 5 bands?
fall out boy, gorrilaz, panic at the disco, nickelback, drowning pool
Are you emotional but can remain stable? I have emotions and I'm always stable
Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic? No if it doesn't work out we can still be friends
Do you live up to your first impressions? Yes
Did you lie on any part of this? No, what you see is what you get.
Are you trying to impress me? If I say no I would be lying so a little of both
Anything you would like to tell me that I don't know yet? Was born in colombia 5'10'; 180 lbs built, air force fireman
are u forrreal go and meet some people at clubs mall etc...
try going to yahoo personals
this is the stupidest question ive ever seen on yahoo answers.
u killed it.
GET A LIFE.!
Name:
Age:
Place of residency:
Why do you want to fill this out?
Do you wanna kiss me?
Do you like to cuddle?
If you had the choice of either going out and hanging with your friends..... Or spending the night with me, what would you choose?
Pick one word to describe me:
On our first date, where would you take me?
If your favorite SoapOpera show was on... But so was mine and we only had one TV... Would you let me watch what I wanted, or what you wanted?
If I was wearing really ugly clothes, would you still show me off to your friends?
Are you controlling?
Are you FUN?
Do you fall in love easier than most?
Do you have sex?
If so how many and favorite positions?
Do you get depressed easily?
Pick a random color, doesn't have to be your favorite:
What do you spend most of your time doing?
What are your future goals?
Do you do drugs?
Are you spontaneous (if so give an example)?
Would you buy me stuff?
Would you kiss me for no reason sometimes?
Would you let me play my music in the car.... Even if you hated it?
Favorite music, top 5 bands?
Are you emotional but can remain stable?
Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic?
Do you live up to your first impressions?
Did you lie on any part of this?
Are you trying to impress me?
Anything you would like to tell me that I don't know yet?
Now pick a word... The first word that comes to mind and write it here:Boyfriend aplication?
Name: Dino
Age: 44 (too old, right?)
Place of residency: Tennessee (I swear I wear shoes, now where did I out those things?)
Why do you want to fill this out? I thought I'd be fun. I thought it was a creative idea!
Do you wanna kiss me? That would be nice.
Do you like to cuddle? Yes.
If you had the choice of either going out and hanging with your friends..... Or spending the night with me, what would you choose? Well, I hardly know you, and more importantly, you hardly ... I'd spend the night with you!
Pick one word to describe me: sexy
On our first date, where would you take me? ... To a horror movie so you'd grab me.
If your favorite SoapOpera show was on... But so was mine and we only had one TV... Would you let me watch what I wanted, or what you wanted? I can learn to like yours.
If I was wearing really ugly clothes, would you still show me off to your friends? Yeah, and I'd wear shoes to match.
Are you controlling? Me? No. Why, what have you heard?
Are you FUN? Very! Do you like really tall and fast rollercoasters?!
Do you fall in love easier than most? Unfortunately
Do you have sex? Yes, and sometimes with someone else.
If so how many and favorite positions? I've never counted how many positions I know, including variations I'd say 12. ... Missionary (yeah, boring, but I can see you), doggy, lady on top ...
Do you get depressed easily? Nope
Pick a random color, doesn't have to be your favorite: red
What do you spend most of your time doing? Well, it seems I spend a lot of time on Yahoo Answers these days.
What are your future goals? To become a psychologist
Do you do drugs? Nope
Are you spontaneous (if so give an example)? Why yes I am. I'm applying to be your boyfriend over the internet.
Would you buy me stuff? Yes, I'm very generous
Would you kiss me for no reason sometimes? Yes I would
Would you let me play my music in the car.... Even if you hated it? I'm sure we'd like the same music, but sure ... It's a short ride.
Favorite music, top 5 bands? Evanescence, Keane, Jet, The Beatles, The Killers
Are you emotional but can remain stable? Yes (I cry at movies, will that be okay?)
Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic? You've been reading my mail, haven't you?
Do you live up to your first impressions? I am what you see.
Did you lie on any part of this? Nope (well, maybe the music thing)
Are you trying to impress me? Yes, how'm doin'?
Anything you would like to tell me that I don't know yet? Oooo, good question and so were the others, so this is tough. Um, I'm short.
Now pick a word... The first word that comes to mind and write it here: WowBoyfriend aplication?
im not good at filling in forms and im taken so ill pass thank you
you are definitely very childish and immature
especially to be asking questions about sex if you think a ';boyfriend application'; really works
I will be nice because more than likely I am dealing with a child here
I will tell you that people lie to get what they want and an application for a boyfriend is not the way to go
You really need a boyfriend huh
Yahoo answers is not a dating service. You should go to yahoo personals or other online dating service to meet your dating needs
What are you doing?!
To long and married - but maybe I should pass it on to my stepdaughter for her future bf's to fill out.
Thanks for the laugh
STOP posting this. Ever wonder why you don't have a boyfriend?
I like the question! Call me 1478 244-1312
Name: Jermaine
Age: 27
Place of residency: Florida
Why do you want to fill this out? I'm bored!
Do you wanna kiss me? Don't know what you look like. So I'll play it safe and say no!
Do you like to cuddle? Yep
If you had the choice of either going out and hanging with your friends..... Or spending the night with me, what would you choose? I'd hang out with you. I love my friends, but I like to meet new people.
Pick one word to describe me: girl
On our first date, where would you take me? Dinner
If your favorite SoapOpera show was on... But so was mine and we only had one TV... Would you let me watch what I wanted, or what you wanted? Don't watch Soap Opera's, so that is all you.
If I was wearing really ugly clothes, would you still show me off to your friends? Yeah, after you changed.
Are you controlling? I don't think so!
Are you FUN? Most of the time!
Do you fall in love easier than most? No not really.
Do you have sex? Yep
If so how many and favorite positions? Too personal for Y/A
Do you get depressed easily? I always try to find the bright side!
Pick a random color, doesn't have to be your favorite: Green
What do you spend most of your time doing? Working
What are your future goals? To have a family one day, but I'm in no rush!
Do you do drugs? Nope!
Are you spontaneous (if so give an example)? When I want to be!
Would you buy me stuff? For now, I would buy you dinner!
Would you kiss me for no reason sometimes? If I found you attactive, Yes!
Would you let me play my music in the car.... Even if you hated it? I could compromise!
Favorite music, top 5 bands?
1. John Mayer
2.Chevelle
3. Evanescence
4. Staind
5. Fall Out Boys
Are you emotional but can remain stable? I've made it this long. So, yes!
Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic? Not anymore!
Do you live up to your first impressions? Not sure what I give off as a first impression.
Did you lie on any part of this? Nope
Are you trying to impress me? Nope
Anything you would like to tell me that I don't know yet? I may be little too old for you, but you would already know that!
Now pick a word... The first word that comes to mind and write it here: Myspace!
Name: Randy
Age:28
Place of residency: currently deployed at Al Dhafra AB UAE
Why do you want to fill this out? Curious
Do you wanna kiss me? Well, see
Do you like to cuddle? Yes
If you had the choice of either going out and hanging with your friends..... Or spending the night with me, what would you choose?
it depends on the mood of the situation and the situation
Pick one word to describe me: I don't know you
On our first date, where would you take me? Probably dinner and a movie of your choice
If your favorite SoapOpera show was on... But so was mine and we only had one TV... Would you let me watch what I wanted, or what you wanted?
you wuld watch yours of course
If I was wearing really ugly clothes, would you still show me off to your friends?
yeah I don't care about what other peole think
Are you controlling?
sometimes
Are you FUN? Yes
Do you fall in love easier than most? It usually takes a while but I guess it depends on the person
Do you have sex? Now no due to the fact I'm sorrunded by dudes
If so how many and favorite positions? Reverse cowgirl
Do you get depressed easily? No but I get bored easily especially nowdays...
Pick a random color, doesn't have to be your favorite: black
What do you spend most of your time doing? Fighting the war on terror in the desert
What are your future goals? To someday marry a good woman, and have a nice family
Do you do drugs? Only what the airforce gives me
Are you spontaneous (if so give an example)? On the job you have no time to spend trying to figure out what to do next, I also practice that on my off duty time
Would you buy me stuff? If there was an occasion calling for it YES
Would you kiss me for no reason sometimes? Absolutely
Would you let me play my music in the car.... Even if you hated it?
if I'm on a good mood
Favorite music, top 5 bands?
fall out boy, gorrilaz, panic at the disco, nickelback, drowning pool
Are you emotional but can remain stable? I have emotions and I'm always stable
Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic? No if it doesn't work out we can still be friends
Do you live up to your first impressions? Yes
Did you lie on any part of this? No, what you see is what you get.
Are you trying to impress me? If I say no I would be lying so a little of both
Anything you would like to tell me that I don't know yet? Was born in colombia 5'10'; 180 lbs built, air force fireman
are u forrreal go and meet some people at clubs mall etc...
try going to yahoo personals
this is the stupidest question ive ever seen on yahoo answers.
u killed it.
GET A LIFE.!
What schould u do when you have fealings for your best friend but she only see you as her best friend?
yeah i need to know what to do here i have this girl that is my number 1 best friend and she only sees me as one of her best friends like her big brouther but i have fealings for her and have told her she says i am cute but she keeps falling for this type of dl realtionship with guys she says she is ready to have a real man in her life and have a real realtionship and i have tryed and tryed to make my fealings for her go away but that wont this is the ferst girl i have had these fealings for since my ex my high school sweet heart and she tells me that if a girl cant accpect me for who i am thin i dont need her bt yet at the same time she is picky about guys looks very picky in fact and yet she said this to me from myspace .com
Would you kiss me?
[]With Tongue []Yes [x]No []Maybe
i only see you as a friend
Would you makeout with me?
[]Hell Yea []Yes [x]No []Maybe []already have ;)
i only see you as a friend
Would you sleep with me?
[]In an instant! [] Yes [x] No []Maybe
i only see you as a friend
Am I attractive?
[] Heck no []hot as Hell []Fine [x]Cute []Okay []Ugly!
Would you love me?
[]To death []Yes []No [x]As a friend []Already do
Do you think I'm a virgin?
[x]Yes []No
I look like..
[ ] A player
[ ] a wife/husband
[ ] One time thing
[ ] Next bf/gf
[x] A friend
[ ] A friend with benefits
[ ] A possibility
[ ] A loser
[ ] A stud
If you saw me for the first time would you talk to me?
[x]Yes []No []maybe
Would you rather.. ??
[ ] Hook up with me
[ ] Cuddle with me
[ ] Date me
[x] Friends
[ ] Friends with benefits
[ ] marry me
[ ] have sex
On a scale of 1-10 (10 being the highest), rate me..
[]1 []2 []3 []4 []5 []6 []7 []8 []9 [x]10
cause your the greatest friend anyone can ask for
What would you want me to be to you?
[x] Friend
[ ] Girlfriend/Boyfriend
[ ] Friend with benefits
[ ] Husband/Wife
Would you give me a lap dance?
[]Hell Yea []Yes []No [x]Maybe
If you had a chance to tell me something, what would it be?
--Put here-- cause your the greatest friend anyone can ask for. im glad we met. i wouldnt trade ya for anything
Are you going to repost this so i can answer for you?
[x]Yes []No
DONT BE SHY TELL ME THE TRUTH HOW YOU REALLY FEAL ABOUT ME OK IF YOU ARE 100% TRUE WITH ME I WILL BE 100% TRUE WITH YOU AND I EXPECT ALL OF MY FEMALE FRIENDSTO RESPOND BACK TO ME EVEN MY SISTERS AND BEST FRIENDS AND THAY KNOW WHO THAY ARE
Girls repost this as ';BOYS ONLY';
boys repost this as ';GIRLS ONLY';
Just click reply and fill in the blanks
ok now what do i do here um i have tryed to get ride of the fealings that i have for her but thay just wont go awayWhat schould u do when you have fealings for your best friend but she only see you as her best friend?
i'm in a similar situation with one of my best guy friends, except the quiz bit, I find the easiest thing to do is move on, I know it sounds really horrible but from the answers in the quiz she likes you but as a friend and maybe that will never change. The worse thing is it'll take time, just try not to let your feelings effect your friendship.
The alternative is to make her like you, be charming and be there when she needs you, don't act jealous and be yourself.
Good Luck!What schould u do when you have fealings for your best friend but she only see you as her best friend?
no
FAIL!graphics for myspace skin care
Would you kiss me?
[]With Tongue []Yes [x]No []Maybe
i only see you as a friend
Would you makeout with me?
[]Hell Yea []Yes [x]No []Maybe []already have ;)
i only see you as a friend
Would you sleep with me?
[]In an instant! [] Yes [x] No []Maybe
i only see you as a friend
Am I attractive?
[] Heck no []hot as Hell []Fine [x]Cute []Okay []Ugly!
Would you love me?
[]To death []Yes []No [x]As a friend []Already do
Do you think I'm a virgin?
[x]Yes []No
I look like..
[ ] A player
[ ] a wife/husband
[ ] One time thing
[ ] Next bf/gf
[x] A friend
[ ] A friend with benefits
[ ] A possibility
[ ] A loser
[ ] A stud
If you saw me for the first time would you talk to me?
[x]Yes []No []maybe
Would you rather.. ??
[ ] Hook up with me
[ ] Cuddle with me
[ ] Date me
[x] Friends
[ ] Friends with benefits
[ ] marry me
[ ] have sex
On a scale of 1-10 (10 being the highest), rate me..
[]1 []2 []3 []4 []5 []6 []7 []8 []9 [x]10
cause your the greatest friend anyone can ask for
What would you want me to be to you?
[x] Friend
[ ] Girlfriend/Boyfriend
[ ] Friend with benefits
[ ] Husband/Wife
Would you give me a lap dance?
[]Hell Yea []Yes []No [x]Maybe
If you had a chance to tell me something, what would it be?
--Put here-- cause your the greatest friend anyone can ask for. im glad we met. i wouldnt trade ya for anything
Are you going to repost this so i can answer for you?
[x]Yes []No
DONT BE SHY TELL ME THE TRUTH HOW YOU REALLY FEAL ABOUT ME OK IF YOU ARE 100% TRUE WITH ME I WILL BE 100% TRUE WITH YOU AND I EXPECT ALL OF MY FEMALE FRIENDSTO RESPOND BACK TO ME EVEN MY SISTERS AND BEST FRIENDS AND THAY KNOW WHO THAY ARE
Girls repost this as ';BOYS ONLY';
boys repost this as ';GIRLS ONLY';
Just click reply and fill in the blanks
ok now what do i do here um i have tryed to get ride of the fealings that i have for her but thay just wont go awayWhat schould u do when you have fealings for your best friend but she only see you as her best friend?
i'm in a similar situation with one of my best guy friends, except the quiz bit, I find the easiest thing to do is move on, I know it sounds really horrible but from the answers in the quiz she likes you but as a friend and maybe that will never change. The worse thing is it'll take time, just try not to let your feelings effect your friendship.
The alternative is to make her like you, be charming and be there when she needs you, don't act jealous and be yourself.
Good Luck!What schould u do when you have fealings for your best friend but she only see you as her best friend?
no
FAIL!
Guys, would you choose your best friend (female) or girlfriend in this situation?
Sorry so long, but I'm an emotional wreck over this. I need your opinions after reading this PLEASE!!
It's hard for me to believe that he just stopped caring about me or that he never did. We have spent every day together for the last four years (up until a couple of months ago when he moved). We used to always take out-of-town weekend trips with a group of friends, and he and I always shared a bed. We never hooked up or even kissed. Sometimes we'd cuddle, but mostly, we just talked until we fell asleep. He told me once that I was the only girl he could lay in bed like that with and not expect anything physical. He told me that I was the only girl he respected enough not to try to cross that line with. I don't know if that's true, but I imagine that it was. He seemed very sincere in the context of the conversation, and we were insanely close in general. In fact, last year (our last year of college), we actually rented a house together. We cooked dinner together in the evenings, we went out for lunch together every day, and we both slept in the living room so that we could stay up together. We talked to each other about everything, and we always promised to always take care of eachother and remain close--even once we both got married. (Secretly, I kind of always thought he and I would wind up together anyway. I wasn't quite ready to persue a relationship like that with him yet, so I never told him I had romantic feelings for him).
Anyway, during the time that we lived together, he started seeing someone, and the two of them became very serious very quickly. I feel like she swept him right out from under me. I know he was never my ';boyfriend,'; but he and I were so close. She lived an hour away (in his hometown), so all of a sudden, he was making trips out to see her two or three times a week, and she was making trips to the house once or twice a week. He and I were barely spending any time together right before he moved out. He said he moved back to his hometown because of a job he couldn't turn down, but secretly, I think he'd been looking for a job there because of his gf. (he'd never admit that to me because he always wanted to make me feel equally worthy of his time).
anyway, since he moved out two months ago, we've seen eachother twice, and both times, he had his gf with him. every time I try to call him, he sends a texts saying that he doesn't have signal at his new house and asking whats up. I know he doesn't get signal there, but if I were in his position, I'd make time to drive out to a place where i had signal and give me a phone call. it's the very least he could do since we suddenly never see eachother.
Our relationship used to be so intimate. For valentines day, which was just months ago, he bought me flowers and wrote the sweetest card to me about how much he loved me, what a great team we were, and how he hoped that things would never change between us. he had this gf at the time too. i just have a hard time believing that he put this much effort--4 years of effort--into a lie, and I also have a hard time believing that he suddenly doesn't care for me. Do you think that maybe he's just afraid to stand up to his gf about hanging out with me? It hurts me so bad to think that he has abandoned me after all we've been through.
what do you think his deal is?Guys, would you choose your best friend (female) or girlfriend in this situation?
Wow, what a horrible situation you've got!
Firstly, I think that you can't just blame this sudden distance on his girlfriend. I have a male best friend and we were pretty much the same as you and your best friend here. He once told me we were going to get married because I was the only one who understood him well enough to make such a commitment to him. then he went off to University, and he's now settled down with a girlfriend he thinks the world of.
He stopped calling every day, he stopped emailing me, he stopped sending me gifts, he stopped most contact apart from the occasional facebook message!!
I was devastated.
But he's so happy. I can;t be angry with him for that. And you shouldn't be.
I suggest you find yourself a special someone that loves you more than he ever did. Someone who won't up and leave you.
You deserve happiness and your friend probably doesn't know that he's hurt you as much as he is.
And remember, he'll need you before you'll need him. If his girlfriend goes off with someone else, you'll be his first port of call.
That's what BEST FRIENDS are there for :D
Peace out xGuys, would you choose your best friend (female) or girlfriend in this situation?
He is right what he is doing, sorry to say. I'll keep this short (or try to). You two obviously have intimate feelings for each other: Sleeping together, renting a house together, valentines day etc. However nothing (for some reason) happened between the two, he probably lost hope in you two being together so got a girlfriend. Her girlfriend is probably jealous of the close relationships you have, honestly I'm not surprised because you two seem like you could have a very good relationship (yet neither of you made a move). Since her girlfriend is jealous, your best friend had to lessen the amount of contact you two had. I think you are really upset because basically his girlfriend has replaced you in your best friend's eyes, I don't blame you for being upset.
All you can see is tell him that you miss him and talk to him about how you feel because it will make you feel better. DON'T TRY TO BREAK THEM UP! Just accept the fact that those two are together and if he comes back to you don't be mad. Spend your time doing other things.
Good luck! No idea if I helped, but I try.
It's hard for me to believe that he just stopped caring about me or that he never did. We have spent every day together for the last four years (up until a couple of months ago when he moved). We used to always take out-of-town weekend trips with a group of friends, and he and I always shared a bed. We never hooked up or even kissed. Sometimes we'd cuddle, but mostly, we just talked until we fell asleep. He told me once that I was the only girl he could lay in bed like that with and not expect anything physical. He told me that I was the only girl he respected enough not to try to cross that line with. I don't know if that's true, but I imagine that it was. He seemed very sincere in the context of the conversation, and we were insanely close in general. In fact, last year (our last year of college), we actually rented a house together. We cooked dinner together in the evenings, we went out for lunch together every day, and we both slept in the living room so that we could stay up together. We talked to each other about everything, and we always promised to always take care of eachother and remain close--even once we both got married. (Secretly, I kind of always thought he and I would wind up together anyway. I wasn't quite ready to persue a relationship like that with him yet, so I never told him I had romantic feelings for him).
Anyway, during the time that we lived together, he started seeing someone, and the two of them became very serious very quickly. I feel like she swept him right out from under me. I know he was never my ';boyfriend,'; but he and I were so close. She lived an hour away (in his hometown), so all of a sudden, he was making trips out to see her two or three times a week, and she was making trips to the house once or twice a week. He and I were barely spending any time together right before he moved out. He said he moved back to his hometown because of a job he couldn't turn down, but secretly, I think he'd been looking for a job there because of his gf. (he'd never admit that to me because he always wanted to make me feel equally worthy of his time).
anyway, since he moved out two months ago, we've seen eachother twice, and both times, he had his gf with him. every time I try to call him, he sends a texts saying that he doesn't have signal at his new house and asking whats up. I know he doesn't get signal there, but if I were in his position, I'd make time to drive out to a place where i had signal and give me a phone call. it's the very least he could do since we suddenly never see eachother.
Our relationship used to be so intimate. For valentines day, which was just months ago, he bought me flowers and wrote the sweetest card to me about how much he loved me, what a great team we were, and how he hoped that things would never change between us. he had this gf at the time too. i just have a hard time believing that he put this much effort--4 years of effort--into a lie, and I also have a hard time believing that he suddenly doesn't care for me. Do you think that maybe he's just afraid to stand up to his gf about hanging out with me? It hurts me so bad to think that he has abandoned me after all we've been through.
what do you think his deal is?Guys, would you choose your best friend (female) or girlfriend in this situation?
Wow, what a horrible situation you've got!
Firstly, I think that you can't just blame this sudden distance on his girlfriend. I have a male best friend and we were pretty much the same as you and your best friend here. He once told me we were going to get married because I was the only one who understood him well enough to make such a commitment to him. then he went off to University, and he's now settled down with a girlfriend he thinks the world of.
He stopped calling every day, he stopped emailing me, he stopped sending me gifts, he stopped most contact apart from the occasional facebook message!!
I was devastated.
But he's so happy. I can;t be angry with him for that. And you shouldn't be.
I suggest you find yourself a special someone that loves you more than he ever did. Someone who won't up and leave you.
You deserve happiness and your friend probably doesn't know that he's hurt you as much as he is.
And remember, he'll need you before you'll need him. If his girlfriend goes off with someone else, you'll be his first port of call.
That's what BEST FRIENDS are there for :D
Peace out xGuys, would you choose your best friend (female) or girlfriend in this situation?
He is right what he is doing, sorry to say. I'll keep this short (or try to). You two obviously have intimate feelings for each other: Sleeping together, renting a house together, valentines day etc. However nothing (for some reason) happened between the two, he probably lost hope in you two being together so got a girlfriend. Her girlfriend is probably jealous of the close relationships you have, honestly I'm not surprised because you two seem like you could have a very good relationship (yet neither of you made a move). Since her girlfriend is jealous, your best friend had to lessen the amount of contact you two had. I think you are really upset because basically his girlfriend has replaced you in your best friend's eyes, I don't blame you for being upset.
All you can see is tell him that you miss him and talk to him about how you feel because it will make you feel better. DON'T TRY TO BREAK THEM UP! Just accept the fact that those two are together and if he comes back to you don't be mad. Spend your time doing other things.
Good luck! No idea if I helped, but I try.
Is there a list of things for guys like they have for girls about a true boyfriend would?
you know those lists?? (like below) well is there one for girls?
A true boyfriend would.
- Not Laugh when shes crying
- Hug her dont make her hug you.
- Sneak up behind her.
- Grab her by the waist.
- Tell her shes beautiful. =]
-If she hangs up on you call her back.
-cuddle with her, girls love it :]
- Tell her she is everything you've dreamed of.
- When your friends walk by say this is my girlfriend.
-randomly give her hugs
- Say I love you to her face not over the phone or myspace.
- If shes sad take her in your arms and tell her everything will be okay.
- Kiss her on the forehead. =]
- When you walk with her walk slowly.
- Leave her messeges in the middle of the day, just sayin how much you care.
- Call her everyday, even if you saw her.
- Tell her infront of anyone that you love her.
- Do cute little things for her, like open her door ect.Is there a list of things for guys like they have for girls about a true boyfriend would?
yeah. they have stuff like
- when you want him to hold your hand, keep tapping it
- tell him everyday that you love him
- when he's telling you his problem, he doesn't want you to help him solve it, he wants you to just listen to him.
- don't be bossyIs there a list of things for guys like they have for girls about a true boyfriend would?
No. You are wrong. Do it if you want them to label you as clingy nice guy. Especially, call her everyday. Trust me. I did all of things you have here.
never tease her (I just melted when I read your list, I guess its a really great personality) unless its like little things, inside jokes ect. Always be kind is important.
Yeah, I'm kinda rambling.
Gross. Half of those things annoy me when my boyfriend does them, and I'm a girl. I guess I'm just not a touchy-feely person.
Yes. But add be honest, faithful, and dont do things behind her back that you cant do when shes there.
these are pansy stuff...and all girls have different things they want from men..you have to get to know them and figure it out your self
I just found tons of these groups on facebook. A lot of them are repetitive, but they're hilarious!
if you google it then you will find a bunch of links.. i found a site with a list of 99.. doubt that all of them are true though... but its worth a shot
Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls.
Guys hate other flirts.
A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. …….dont think so
Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! but do not generalise
Guys cry!!!
Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
Guys can never dream and hope too much.
Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands……yeh rite - watever.
Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”. ……so true.
You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
Guys hate gays!
Guys love their moms.
A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.
Guys are very open about themselves.
It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
No guy is bad when he is courting
Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice…….very true.
A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. ……..sumtimes.
Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
Guys virtually brag about anything.
Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
Guys think too much.
Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!……very true.
Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.
When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed P**** with their girlfriends…..sumtimes depends wen they want sumat.
When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”……sumtimes.
Guys don’t really have final decisions.
When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him….very imp
A true boyfriend would.
- Not Laugh when shes crying
- Hug her dont make her hug you.
- Sneak up behind her.
- Grab her by the waist.
- Tell her shes beautiful. =]
-If she hangs up on you call her back.
-cuddle with her, girls love it :]
- Tell her she is everything you've dreamed of.
- When your friends walk by say this is my girlfriend.
-randomly give her hugs
- Say I love you to her face not over the phone or myspace.
- If shes sad take her in your arms and tell her everything will be okay.
- Kiss her on the forehead. =]
- When you walk with her walk slowly.
- Leave her messeges in the middle of the day, just sayin how much you care.
- Call her everyday, even if you saw her.
- Tell her infront of anyone that you love her.
- Do cute little things for her, like open her door ect.Is there a list of things for guys like they have for girls about a true boyfriend would?
yeah. they have stuff like
- when you want him to hold your hand, keep tapping it
- tell him everyday that you love him
- when he's telling you his problem, he doesn't want you to help him solve it, he wants you to just listen to him.
- don't be bossyIs there a list of things for guys like they have for girls about a true boyfriend would?
No. You are wrong. Do it if you want them to label you as clingy nice guy. Especially, call her everyday. Trust me. I did all of things you have here.
never tease her (I just melted when I read your list, I guess its a really great personality) unless its like little things, inside jokes ect. Always be kind is important.
Yeah, I'm kinda rambling.
Gross. Half of those things annoy me when my boyfriend does them, and I'm a girl. I guess I'm just not a touchy-feely person.
Yes. But add be honest, faithful, and dont do things behind her back that you cant do when shes there.
these are pansy stuff...and all girls have different things they want from men..you have to get to know them and figure it out your self
I just found tons of these groups on facebook. A lot of them are repetitive, but they're hilarious!
if you google it then you will find a bunch of links.. i found a site with a list of 99.. doubt that all of them are true though... but its worth a shot
Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls.
Guys hate other flirts.
A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. …….dont think so
Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! but do not generalise
Guys cry!!!
Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
Guys can never dream and hope too much.
Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands……yeh rite - watever.
Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”. ……so true.
You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
Guys hate gays!
Guys love their moms.
A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.
Guys are very open about themselves.
It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
No guy is bad when he is courting
Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice…….very true.
A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. ……..sumtimes.
Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
Guys virtually brag about anything.
Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
Guys think too much.
Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!……very true.
Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.
When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed P**** with their girlfriends…..sumtimes depends wen they want sumat.
When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”……sumtimes.
Guys don’t really have final decisions.
When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him….very imp
How to cheer up a ill boyfriend? Easy 10points?
My boyfriend is ill at the minute. Headache, stuffed up, and generally just feels incredibly rough. That time of year with colds and flu etc. He's been like it for about 4 days now, and he's been to work 3 of those days.
Problem is i repeat myself over and over. He comes home, i give him something to eat, something for his headache and tell him to go to bed. He goes, and i'll walk upstairs about 15minutes later, give him some hot chocolate and a kiss and cuddle. He's usually asleep when i go to bed, so i place a pain killer and water on his bedside table and go to sleep. In the morning he's usually taken the tablets and drunk the water.
My question is guys what would you want your girlfriend to do when you feel like crud? Can i do more for him?
Girls, would you do anything different?
Thanks in advance =DHow to cheer up a ill boyfriend? Easy 10points?
sounds like your doing everything possible
ya sound like a great gal and hes a lucky man
just need to keep doing what your doing and wait till its gone.
Problem is i repeat myself over and over. He comes home, i give him something to eat, something for his headache and tell him to go to bed. He goes, and i'll walk upstairs about 15minutes later, give him some hot chocolate and a kiss and cuddle. He's usually asleep when i go to bed, so i place a pain killer and water on his bedside table and go to sleep. In the morning he's usually taken the tablets and drunk the water.
My question is guys what would you want your girlfriend to do when you feel like crud? Can i do more for him?
Girls, would you do anything different?
Thanks in advance =DHow to cheer up a ill boyfriend? Easy 10points?
sounds like your doing everything possible
ya sound like a great gal and hes a lucky man
just need to keep doing what your doing and wait till its gone.
My best friend's boyfriend took advantage.. How can I tell her?
Last night, at a New Year's Party, we all partied a little too hard. I wound up pretty drunk and high, along with my best friend (M). My best friend's boyfriend (lets call him C) was there but doesn't believe in drinking / smoking, so he was 100% sober.
Long story short, 4 times during the night he basically molested me. Three of the times were in front of my best friend / his gf. All four times, he would grab and caress my face, 3/4 times he basically pinned me in place, and all four times he kept kissing my face. He kept whispering things to me, which I don't remember, but I remember I kept saying No. He tried to get me to kiss M and this other girl at some point. Every single time I tried to push him off and get away (he weighs 200lb). I always told him NO. The part that hurts the most is that she saw him do it, multiple times. And she didn't stop him. She didn't say a word. I mean, she was pretty drunk.. but she definitely noticed. I always had a terrified expression on my face. And even after those times, she kept disappearing to make out with him. I was near tears by the end of the night, after his repeated attacks. She was my ride home, and I begged her for a good hour to take me home (earlier than everyone else cause I was so upset). When she finally did, instead of going to sleepover like I was supposed to, I asked her to take me home. C was in the car. And she was on his lap..
I am repulsed by C's behavior, taking advantage of how drunk I was, and how drunk M was so that she wouldn't react? People witnessed what happened. Everyone saw how upset I was by the end of the night. C kept telling me I was ';wasted';.. he kept trying to be friendly. I couldn't even look at his face.
I get the feeling M is in denial. I feel like she blocked out what happened. She's definitely a peacemaker. She HATES confronting people and causing drama. She loves to live in denial. But I can't do this. She already texted me ';hey i'm gonna pretend you didnt sleepover becuz your dad didnt let you, not that you didnt want to. i get the feeling its the 2nd one tho. call me';. I can't. I am so confused. Why didn't she stop him? Why didn't she say anything? How could she still kiss him and cuddle him?? I can't talk to her, and I definitely won't go over there cause C is always there. He probably thinks I don't even remember..My best friend's boyfriend took advantage.. How can I tell her?
Unless someone is totally out of it; they don't ignore what is happening to a FRIEND!
Suggestion: if you know any big (as in height, muscles etc.) gay guyz ask them to return the favor that pig tried to do to you!
Man I love women in all respects but that is damn close to rape! Let him have a taste of the same medicine.
If u gf doesn't get it, suggest you spend more time with real friends!
Long story short, 4 times during the night he basically molested me. Three of the times were in front of my best friend / his gf. All four times, he would grab and caress my face, 3/4 times he basically pinned me in place, and all four times he kept kissing my face. He kept whispering things to me, which I don't remember, but I remember I kept saying No. He tried to get me to kiss M and this other girl at some point. Every single time I tried to push him off and get away (he weighs 200lb). I always told him NO. The part that hurts the most is that she saw him do it, multiple times. And she didn't stop him. She didn't say a word. I mean, she was pretty drunk.. but she definitely noticed. I always had a terrified expression on my face. And even after those times, she kept disappearing to make out with him. I was near tears by the end of the night, after his repeated attacks. She was my ride home, and I begged her for a good hour to take me home (earlier than everyone else cause I was so upset). When she finally did, instead of going to sleepover like I was supposed to, I asked her to take me home. C was in the car. And she was on his lap..
I am repulsed by C's behavior, taking advantage of how drunk I was, and how drunk M was so that she wouldn't react? People witnessed what happened. Everyone saw how upset I was by the end of the night. C kept telling me I was ';wasted';.. he kept trying to be friendly. I couldn't even look at his face.
I get the feeling M is in denial. I feel like she blocked out what happened. She's definitely a peacemaker. She HATES confronting people and causing drama. She loves to live in denial. But I can't do this. She already texted me ';hey i'm gonna pretend you didnt sleepover becuz your dad didnt let you, not that you didnt want to. i get the feeling its the 2nd one tho. call me';. I can't. I am so confused. Why didn't she stop him? Why didn't she say anything? How could she still kiss him and cuddle him?? I can't talk to her, and I definitely won't go over there cause C is always there. He probably thinks I don't even remember..My best friend's boyfriend took advantage.. How can I tell her?
Unless someone is totally out of it; they don't ignore what is happening to a FRIEND!
Suggestion: if you know any big (as in height, muscles etc.) gay guyz ask them to return the favor that pig tried to do to you!
Man I love women in all respects but that is damn close to rape! Let him have a taste of the same medicine.
If u gf doesn't get it, suggest you spend more time with real friends!
What is your idea for a perfect first date? What do you think of mines?
Tell me how old you are so I can get a gauge of what different girls like:
Tell me your perfect date then tell me what you think of mines.
This is what I'm planning for a lucky lady. I live in Chicago. She just got off of a tough break up and I want her make her feel special. I'm hoping to make her all mine, you think this will do the trick?
-Go to dinner downtown at my favorite rib place.
-Go for a nice walk downtown until we hit the outdoor ice skating rink and go skating for awhile.
-Go back to my place.
-Make her dessert. Or like buy a cheesecake and put a scoop of ice cream on it with chocolate or strawberry sauce. Feed each other it.
-Make my homemade pina coladas.
-Watch a movie and cuddle.
Add anything? Take anything out? By the way I'm 21.
People might think this is a bit much but I have liked this girl for 2 and a half years. She had a boyfriend for much of this time and is finally single and giving me my shot. She has always known that I liked her. I told her ';I plan to sweep you off your feet on this date'; and she said ';give me your best shot. =]';What is your idea for a perfect first date? What do you think of mines?
how about doing the things that she likes to do? Does she like watching movies at late night? Does she have a favorite restaurant? What is her favourite food?What is your idea for a perfect first date? What do you think of mines?
It's not like a date is about doing all that, then you get to take her home, don't try to hard if it's a date..Kinda..Stalkerish?
Im 12 and i would've loved to do that if my mom or his mom knew about us, let alone let us do that :[ but that would be an awesome date if you ask me :D
Tell me your perfect date then tell me what you think of mines.
This is what I'm planning for a lucky lady. I live in Chicago. She just got off of a tough break up and I want her make her feel special. I'm hoping to make her all mine, you think this will do the trick?
-Go to dinner downtown at my favorite rib place.
-Go for a nice walk downtown until we hit the outdoor ice skating rink and go skating for awhile.
-Go back to my place.
-Make her dessert. Or like buy a cheesecake and put a scoop of ice cream on it with chocolate or strawberry sauce. Feed each other it.
-Make my homemade pina coladas.
-Watch a movie and cuddle.
Add anything? Take anything out? By the way I'm 21.
People might think this is a bit much but I have liked this girl for 2 and a half years. She had a boyfriend for much of this time and is finally single and giving me my shot. She has always known that I liked her. I told her ';I plan to sweep you off your feet on this date'; and she said ';give me your best shot. =]';What is your idea for a perfect first date? What do you think of mines?
how about doing the things that she likes to do? Does she like watching movies at late night? Does she have a favorite restaurant? What is her favourite food?What is your idea for a perfect first date? What do you think of mines?
It's not like a date is about doing all that, then you get to take her home, don't try to hard if it's a date..Kinda..Stalkerish?
Im 12 and i would've loved to do that if my mom or his mom knew about us, let alone let us do that :[ but that would be an awesome date if you ask me :D
How to convince my mom to let my boyfriend stay the night?
I really want my boyfriend to spend the night over my house and so does he. We are in a serious relationship and it's not like we would do anything...we would just sleep in the same bed, basically like any other regular sleepover when people have their friends over..except hes my bf so all wed do is cuddle or whatever and fall asleep. I've already asked my mom if he could, she said, ';No, not until your 18.'; Then i of couse asked why and all and she said, ';because/i said so, not until your 18.'; Then i even said even if he slept on the couch bed which is next to her room and i sleep upstairs in my room? still the same answers basically...anyways i really love my bf and i want to spend a night with him. It would be very nice...even if it has to be seperate rooms i guess until im 18 then he can come to my room and stay. Well any advice to how i should convince my mom to let him spend the night??? THANKS in advance!!!How to convince my mom to let my boyfriend stay the night?
Your mom is being really reasonable. You are really lucky. I am twenty-two years old. I no longer live at home, but I bring my boyfriend by my parents house on numerous occassions. Even if we hang out there until 2AM, my parents absolutely forbid me to llet him stay the night there with me. We've been dating for two years. They claim: their house, their rules. Even though I'm an adult! It's actually one of the reasons I moved out in the first place. You're very lucky that you only have to wait until you are 18.
In all honesty I would stop bugging your mom about it. The more you pester her, the more likely she will be to get frustrated and change her mind.
If she was my mom, I'd tell her thank you.
:)How to convince my mom to let my boyfriend stay the night?
This is something parents are pretty strict about usually. The reason is more than she doesn't want you to have sex. She also doesn't want to imagine sex between you two is possible, especially under her roof.
Try to show her both of your mature sides. Your adult side. Your mutual respect for each other. Have him over for dinner more, let her get more comfortable with him.
There's a 90% chance she wont budge on this, but at least she'll respect your relationship more.
It's your mother's house. Respect her wishes. Whenever you catch yourself sneaking around to do something your mother forbids you, stop. Remember that it would hurt your feelings if your friend (or your mom!) treated you to a blatant display of deception or lies.
listen to your mom.
you will understand when you are older.
you will not just cuddle, you will have sex. you might not want to, but your defenses will be down and you will go farther then you intended.
listen to mom.
maybe your mom could talk to his parents about it. talk to your mom and his parents at the same time might help too.
maybe? i dont know. thats what i'd do.
invite him over on a day that it snows or something. then use the excuse that the roads are too bad and he will have to stay the night. it worked for me and my girlfriend
oh stop, cuddling can EASILY lead to other things, no matter how good YOUR intentions are. respect your moms decision, its a veeeery rational one.
cant imagine this in indiagraphics for myspace coolest myspace
Your mom is being really reasonable. You are really lucky. I am twenty-two years old. I no longer live at home, but I bring my boyfriend by my parents house on numerous occassions. Even if we hang out there until 2AM, my parents absolutely forbid me to llet him stay the night there with me. We've been dating for two years. They claim: their house, their rules. Even though I'm an adult! It's actually one of the reasons I moved out in the first place. You're very lucky that you only have to wait until you are 18.
In all honesty I would stop bugging your mom about it. The more you pester her, the more likely she will be to get frustrated and change her mind.
If she was my mom, I'd tell her thank you.
:)How to convince my mom to let my boyfriend stay the night?
This is something parents are pretty strict about usually. The reason is more than she doesn't want you to have sex. She also doesn't want to imagine sex between you two is possible, especially under her roof.
Try to show her both of your mature sides. Your adult side. Your mutual respect for each other. Have him over for dinner more, let her get more comfortable with him.
There's a 90% chance she wont budge on this, but at least she'll respect your relationship more.
It's your mother's house. Respect her wishes. Whenever you catch yourself sneaking around to do something your mother forbids you, stop. Remember that it would hurt your feelings if your friend (or your mom!) treated you to a blatant display of deception or lies.
listen to your mom.
you will understand when you are older.
you will not just cuddle, you will have sex. you might not want to, but your defenses will be down and you will go farther then you intended.
listen to mom.
maybe your mom could talk to his parents about it. talk to your mom and his parents at the same time might help too.
maybe? i dont know. thats what i'd do.
invite him over on a day that it snows or something. then use the excuse that the roads are too bad and he will have to stay the night. it worked for me and my girlfriend
oh stop, cuddling can EASILY lead to other things, no matter how good YOUR intentions are. respect your moms decision, its a veeeery rational one.
cant imagine this in india
What is your idea for a perfect first date? What do you think of mines?
Tell me how old you are so I can get a gauge of what different girls like:
Tell me your perfect date then tell me what you think of mines.
This is what I'm planning for a lucky lady. I live in Chicago. She just got off of a tough break up and I want her make her feel special. I'm hoping to make her all mine, you think this will do the trick?
-Go to dinner downtown at my favorite rib place.
-Go for a nice walk downtown until we hit the outdoor ice skating rink and go skating for awhile.
-Go back to my place.
-Make her dessert. Or like buy a cheesecake and put a scoop of ice cream on it with chocolate or strawberry sauce. Feed each other it.
-Make my homemade pina coladas.
-Watch a movie and cuddle.
Add anything? Take anything out? By the way I'm 21.
People might think this is a bit much but I have liked this girl for 2 and a half years. She had a boyfriend for much of this time and is finally single and giving me my shot. She has always known that I liked her. I told her ';I plan to sweep you off your feet on this date'; and she said ';give me your best shot. =]';What is your idea for a perfect first date? What do you think of mines?
I like it, but I think drinking on the first date might not be the best idea, I mean you guys have known each other a while so it isn't really an issue of being forward, but drinking would seem to ruin the romance a little I think, I could be wrong. I would however, really resent anyone trying to feed me anything, I've never met anyone that liked that, I would wait for her to initiate that. Other than, I think it sounds like a very fun and sweet date, and I really hope this works out for you! Good luck!!! : )What is your idea for a perfect first date? What do you think of mines?
Stop Fornicating. Stop the cycle of free sex, disease, unwanted pregnancies and babies, single parenting, etc, etc,.
Fornicating destroys a society. Clean up our corrupted environment by doing your part and stop fornicating. Get married instead.
Momo has given you a clue here.
Find out what SHE likes to do, then you will have the key to the perfect date.
16- Perfect ';date'; would be to comic con SD, or a Star Wars convention.
I think you should take her to her favorite restaurant, not yours D:
jkkj
If you know her well, and the things she likes, I would tailor the evening around those things; not necessarily what you like. I think you should be a bit more spontaneous. Feeding each other may not be something she would be comfortable with. If she's a smart woman, one night will not be enough to ';sweep her off her feet';. Haste makes waste. It takes a while to get to know someone romantically to make a decision like that. Prove yourself to her over time. If she doesn't like you that way, so be it. But, be yourself.
Actually, it sounds more like 4th date to me. You hurt yourself by raising her expectations. I also think you are planning too much, be flexible. What makes dates great is in the conversation and interaction. It really doesn't matter one iota what you actually do but have options in case she doesn't.
Try taking her to a place neither of you have ever been (a shared experience) Find out what she likes, if she likes music, figure out where you can go to see some live music afterward, if she likes art, see if there is an exhibit. Make it a unique experience for her.
The plans at your house might just backfire on you. If you invite her back, she's going to assume you want to do more than ';cuddling'; Don't assume so much.
Tell me your perfect date then tell me what you think of mines.
This is what I'm planning for a lucky lady. I live in Chicago. She just got off of a tough break up and I want her make her feel special. I'm hoping to make her all mine, you think this will do the trick?
-Go to dinner downtown at my favorite rib place.
-Go for a nice walk downtown until we hit the outdoor ice skating rink and go skating for awhile.
-Go back to my place.
-Make her dessert. Or like buy a cheesecake and put a scoop of ice cream on it with chocolate or strawberry sauce. Feed each other it.
-Make my homemade pina coladas.
-Watch a movie and cuddle.
Add anything? Take anything out? By the way I'm 21.
People might think this is a bit much but I have liked this girl for 2 and a half years. She had a boyfriend for much of this time and is finally single and giving me my shot. She has always known that I liked her. I told her ';I plan to sweep you off your feet on this date'; and she said ';give me your best shot. =]';What is your idea for a perfect first date? What do you think of mines?
I like it, but I think drinking on the first date might not be the best idea, I mean you guys have known each other a while so it isn't really an issue of being forward, but drinking would seem to ruin the romance a little I think, I could be wrong. I would however, really resent anyone trying to feed me anything, I've never met anyone that liked that, I would wait for her to initiate that. Other than, I think it sounds like a very fun and sweet date, and I really hope this works out for you! Good luck!!! : )What is your idea for a perfect first date? What do you think of mines?
Stop Fornicating. Stop the cycle of free sex, disease, unwanted pregnancies and babies, single parenting, etc, etc,.
Fornicating destroys a society. Clean up our corrupted environment by doing your part and stop fornicating. Get married instead.
Momo has given you a clue here.
Find out what SHE likes to do, then you will have the key to the perfect date.
16- Perfect ';date'; would be to comic con SD, or a Star Wars convention.
I think you should take her to her favorite restaurant, not yours D:
jkkj
If you know her well, and the things she likes, I would tailor the evening around those things; not necessarily what you like. I think you should be a bit more spontaneous. Feeding each other may not be something she would be comfortable with. If she's a smart woman, one night will not be enough to ';sweep her off her feet';. Haste makes waste. It takes a while to get to know someone romantically to make a decision like that. Prove yourself to her over time. If she doesn't like you that way, so be it. But, be yourself.
Actually, it sounds more like 4th date to me. You hurt yourself by raising her expectations. I also think you are planning too much, be flexible. What makes dates great is in the conversation and interaction. It really doesn't matter one iota what you actually do but have options in case she doesn't.
Try taking her to a place neither of you have ever been (a shared experience) Find out what she likes, if she likes music, figure out where you can go to see some live music afterward, if she likes art, see if there is an exhibit. Make it a unique experience for her.
The plans at your house might just backfire on you. If you invite her back, she's going to assume you want to do more than ';cuddling'; Don't assume so much.
How do you finish with a nice boyfriend?
This will sound awful but here goes......
I have been dating a guy for around 2 months now although iv only seen him about 10 times due to holidays etc.
He is such a nice lad, best looking guy i have dated, he's really really nice, too nice and i feel like its not right. I dont want to hold his hand or cuddle or anything... He is too nice which sounds horrid as all iv wanted is a nice boyfriend compared to some idiot who doesnt care and cheats every weekend... I dont want to make a big mistake and finish it and regret it.... What are your suggestions??How do you finish with a nice boyfriend?
Tell him to get a leather jacket and pretend to be a bad-boy so you get turned on. But when he comes over to meet your parents, have him dress nice and pretend to be the 'nice guy'.
I have been dating a guy for around 2 months now although iv only seen him about 10 times due to holidays etc.
He is such a nice lad, best looking guy i have dated, he's really really nice, too nice and i feel like its not right. I dont want to hold his hand or cuddle or anything... He is too nice which sounds horrid as all iv wanted is a nice boyfriend compared to some idiot who doesnt care and cheats every weekend... I dont want to make a big mistake and finish it and regret it.... What are your suggestions??How do you finish with a nice boyfriend?
Tell him to get a leather jacket and pretend to be a bad-boy so you get turned on. But when he comes over to meet your parents, have him dress nice and pretend to be the 'nice guy'.
WHAT TO DO!!!! Boyfriend help please?
Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been kinda having problems again.
****. it sucks a lot because he told me that he loves me, but just not as crazy in love as I am...
I took it really hard, like what a jerk, who says that. He loves me, just keep it at that..
I went out of town for the day, but it was supposed to be 2 days but came home early to surprise him. He didn't even care, and if he did he didn't show it. I really didn't want to sleep alone, and wanted to see him cause I love him sooo much.
THEN, during the night, he didn't cuddle me at all, and I really wanted to make love with him but it didn't happen either.
so, i was all I wish I never came back yet, I think your too used to us being together, and don't appreciate me at all or our relationship.
Then he went to work this morning, and i texted him I hated him cause I am SOOOO MAD and hurt.
I want to save this relationship but I don't know how, he has been calling me and I can't bring myself to answer it because I am really really worried about what will happen. I love him too much but its like a hate love now.
:( Life sucks.WHAT TO DO!!!! Boyfriend help please?
Im a guy so take it from me.Sometimes its hard for us guys to be as sensitive as girls. which causes us to hold our feelings inside. We love you all but we dont want to come off as punks. and sometimes that causes us to lose the one we love. Tell your man. ';listen. i love you to death but i dont feel that you truely appreciate me';. Its true that sometimes we get too used to having a girl around that we forget about what we truely have. Just sit down and talk to him. maybe he is a shy guy like me. you just have to make him open up. (trust me it will work). Im alwayz here to help because it sounds like you truely want to make your relationship work. and i dont blame you! WHAT TO DO!!!! Boyfriend help please?
you need to talk with him. if anything you may be very attached to him or the thought of him, if anything just give him some space and remember love is masochistic.
give him some space and stop being so needy. you're pushing him away... give him time to let himself miss you... you're too clingy, girl.
The first issue is that you love him more than he loves you. I've been in that situation before and it hurts the entire time you're in the relationship. This is such a personal issue, however, that it's hard to give real advice. If you're giving 110% to a relationship and he's barely there, you're just going to end up draining yourself emotionally. You sound like the type of person who puts her significant other first, but you need to take a step back and look at what this is doing to you. Reevaluate the relationship, because no matter how much you love him, it's not worth sticking around until you get your heart broken.
i don't think he Truly loves you, because if he did he should have been surprised and happy and all over you 2 make up for the 2 days u weren't home,but instead he didn't ,don't save a relationship that's not worth it,if i were you i ended it now tel him that you think he's not ready for you,end it now its better to end it now then to w8 when it ends for real,because if you end it now telling him like that he's not ready for you You could still talk to him but if it really ended you cant,so tell him when he's ready for you you'll take him back,I'm not guaranteeing you that he'll come back,well if he doesn't then you know that you you waisted your time on a relationship that wasn't even worth it..
****. it sucks a lot because he told me that he loves me, but just not as crazy in love as I am...
I took it really hard, like what a jerk, who says that. He loves me, just keep it at that..
I went out of town for the day, but it was supposed to be 2 days but came home early to surprise him. He didn't even care, and if he did he didn't show it. I really didn't want to sleep alone, and wanted to see him cause I love him sooo much.
THEN, during the night, he didn't cuddle me at all, and I really wanted to make love with him but it didn't happen either.
so, i was all I wish I never came back yet, I think your too used to us being together, and don't appreciate me at all or our relationship.
Then he went to work this morning, and i texted him I hated him cause I am SOOOO MAD and hurt.
I want to save this relationship but I don't know how, he has been calling me and I can't bring myself to answer it because I am really really worried about what will happen. I love him too much but its like a hate love now.
:( Life sucks.WHAT TO DO!!!! Boyfriend help please?
Im a guy so take it from me.Sometimes its hard for us guys to be as sensitive as girls. which causes us to hold our feelings inside. We love you all but we dont want to come off as punks. and sometimes that causes us to lose the one we love. Tell your man. ';listen. i love you to death but i dont feel that you truely appreciate me';. Its true that sometimes we get too used to having a girl around that we forget about what we truely have. Just sit down and talk to him. maybe he is a shy guy like me. you just have to make him open up. (trust me it will work). Im alwayz here to help because it sounds like you truely want to make your relationship work. and i dont blame you! WHAT TO DO!!!! Boyfriend help please?
you need to talk with him. if anything you may be very attached to him or the thought of him, if anything just give him some space and remember love is masochistic.
give him some space and stop being so needy. you're pushing him away... give him time to let himself miss you... you're too clingy, girl.
The first issue is that you love him more than he loves you. I've been in that situation before and it hurts the entire time you're in the relationship. This is such a personal issue, however, that it's hard to give real advice. If you're giving 110% to a relationship and he's barely there, you're just going to end up draining yourself emotionally. You sound like the type of person who puts her significant other first, but you need to take a step back and look at what this is doing to you. Reevaluate the relationship, because no matter how much you love him, it's not worth sticking around until you get your heart broken.
i don't think he Truly loves you, because if he did he should have been surprised and happy and all over you 2 make up for the 2 days u weren't home,but instead he didn't ,don't save a relationship that's not worth it,if i were you i ended it now tel him that you think he's not ready for you,end it now its better to end it now then to w8 when it ends for real,because if you end it now telling him like that he's not ready for you You could still talk to him but if it really ended you cant,so tell him when he's ready for you you'll take him back,I'm not guaranteeing you that he'll come back,well if he doesn't then you know that you you waisted your time on a relationship that wasn't even worth it..
I want my boyfriend back please help. 10 points for best answer?
Well I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months im 23 and he is 20.
Our relationship has not benn the easiest of relationship firstly we both work for the same company but he works away for like 2-3 weeks a time. But when I do see him Its not how I want things to be, He likes to spend alot of time with his friends aswell (and his friends dont have girlfriends). When Its just me and him at his house its nice we cuddle etc etc. But we dont often go out for nights out together. He says he dont like me when I am drunk and dont like the way I am in clubs, I dont think I behave terribly in clubs I dont talk to other men but I do like to go off and dance, he dont stop me but he dont like me drinking pints or smoking roll ups. Well on Saturday just gone I went out with all my friends and didnt here off him all day so I told him It was over that night I kissed someone else but that was all it was just a kiss which he knows cause I phoned him when I got home that night. He told me he was going to finish it anyway. We have spoken alot everyday and he says that we might get back together but he dont know wehter he can trust me or not. If he wants me then he shoukld make me feel like he wants me when we ar together. I dont think he was going to split with me I think he was just saying that and there must be something still there between us other wise he wouldnt bother talking to me. I just want to here your views on things and advise me or something. 10 points for best answer.I want my boyfriend back please help. 10 points for best answer?
i agree with kaz49, doesnt sound like u too seemed at ALL happy.. u knw, just let him go.. if its meant to be ull meet sometime in the future.. if not then ull meet someone better.. trust me!! dont be desperate to have a bf just coz its ';cool to'; .. sometimes id rahter be single than married.. u get less stressed..I want my boyfriend back please help. 10 points for best answer?
put out.
It sounds like neither of you were particularly happy. He definitely wasn't that into you if he's not willing to make an effort, it was just something casual for him. You are both young and if you like going out and clubbing and drinking then you are better off being single. That's what you should spend your early twenties doing. When you are older and ready to settle down and stop partying you will find someone who is right for you. Let him go.
Our relationship has not benn the easiest of relationship firstly we both work for the same company but he works away for like 2-3 weeks a time. But when I do see him Its not how I want things to be, He likes to spend alot of time with his friends aswell (and his friends dont have girlfriends). When Its just me and him at his house its nice we cuddle etc etc. But we dont often go out for nights out together. He says he dont like me when I am drunk and dont like the way I am in clubs, I dont think I behave terribly in clubs I dont talk to other men but I do like to go off and dance, he dont stop me but he dont like me drinking pints or smoking roll ups. Well on Saturday just gone I went out with all my friends and didnt here off him all day so I told him It was over that night I kissed someone else but that was all it was just a kiss which he knows cause I phoned him when I got home that night. He told me he was going to finish it anyway. We have spoken alot everyday and he says that we might get back together but he dont know wehter he can trust me or not. If he wants me then he shoukld make me feel like he wants me when we ar together. I dont think he was going to split with me I think he was just saying that and there must be something still there between us other wise he wouldnt bother talking to me. I just want to here your views on things and advise me or something. 10 points for best answer.I want my boyfriend back please help. 10 points for best answer?
i agree with kaz49, doesnt sound like u too seemed at ALL happy.. u knw, just let him go.. if its meant to be ull meet sometime in the future.. if not then ull meet someone better.. trust me!! dont be desperate to have a bf just coz its ';cool to'; .. sometimes id rahter be single than married.. u get less stressed..I want my boyfriend back please help. 10 points for best answer?
put out.
It sounds like neither of you were particularly happy. He definitely wasn't that into you if he's not willing to make an effort, it was just something casual for him. You are both young and if you like going out and clubbing and drinking then you are better off being single. That's what you should spend your early twenties doing. When you are older and ready to settle down and stop partying you will find someone who is right for you. Let him go.
Did my boyfriend lie about not loving me back?
I met Jason at work a few months ago and we sort of flirted back and forth a few times when finally he asked me out to dinner. The first date was kinda nerve-racking what with all the awkward silences but later it got better and we officially began dating a couple days after that. Things were great, as they always are at the beginning of a relationship. He was the first man to really treat me well and respect me. I just really felt for the first time that he genuinely cared about me even though we were still getting to know each other. We have so many things and common and we can talk about anything. I can tell him anything and just really be myself with him. I never had that before. At work things were great. I always had this thing like you should never date someone you work with but it was really comfortable, people knew even my boss who is awesome knew about us. So after about a month he tells me out of the blue 'i feel like we've been dating for six months' or something like that. I pulled him to the side and just asked him if he felt rushed or whatever and he said no and that he liked where everything was going. After that little talk things went back to regular routine. I would go to his house after work and on most days spend the night. We were spending all our time together everything was wonderful I was so happy and he would tell me all the time how happy I made him. He even took me to meet his mom like after two weeks of dating and was all 'i don't take just anyone to see my mom.' He wanted me a part of his life and to meet his friends. So fast forward to two months later when we are texting and talking back and forth like we do all the time,he tells me via text after we got done talking on the phone that he wants to 'take things slow before we lose each other completely, I was getting attached to you'. I played it off replying like 'oh okay' like it didn't bother me. But i was just shocked and confused by this as it came out of nowhere! I was hurt and told him that I loved him and didn't want to lose him. He just said that he didn't feel the same way. So later even after the painful breakup we are still hanging out and flirting and doing things as if we didn't break up but somehow he was still trying to embed into my head that we were 'just friends' and nothing else. I became very angry and was all bring my stuff back and I'll return your things since you don't 'feel the same way! shouldn't be hard for you right??' he refused. Later he begins buying me gifts like a whole box of white chocolate candy bars that he knows are my favorite, this cute little Wall-E toy just lots of little nick knacks that were just really sweet. I would still spend the night at his place (no sex) and we would just cuddle and hug each other all the time. Even after all that hes like ' I just don't feel the same way you do, and I can see you getting hurt in the future, so better now than later.' Why would a man do all those things if he didn't love the woman? Why would he let me spend the night? or buy me presents? or still contact me at all? It just doesn't make any sense. So recently I told him it would be best to just take a break from each other for a while so I can get over the breakup cuz all we were doing was bickering at each other cuz I wanted to get back together. The first day was rough considering that we work together. I got through it we didn't talk or have any eye contact. It was really hard avoiding him at work but i did it. So did my boyfriend lie about not loving me back? something tells me that he fell in love with me, realized it and broke up with me cuz he got scared. Im just really sad I really feel like I fell in love with this guy. It may sound crazy but people always say 'when it happens you just know' and it finally happened to me and now he's gone. I feel like hes lying to himself and me about how he feels. What should I do? What would you do?Did my boyfriend lie about not loving me back?
Sometimes guys like a girl and then break up with them when their emotions get all mixed up. My son wll not allow himself fall in love after a bad long term relationship that ended. He wants someone in his life as soon as he finds someone he ends it. Men do not handle their emotions well. Men sometimes just as we women decide the other person really isnt who we want to be with, and like the person so much and respect that person so much, that breaking up with them is so hard to take themselves the make a sloppy break up such as your guy has.
Make it easy on him. Move on, remain friends, but dont text and call all the time, after a relationship it takes time to sort out thoughts and get over it, let him get over it, you get over it and if your meant to still be friends let it happen naturally, not because one person pushed the other person.Did my boyfriend lie about not loving me back?
hes playing head games get away befor you get really really hurt, he doesnt know what he wants and your being a fool for keeping in touch an staying in his house hell never give you what you want move on an find someone who doesnt act like a little boy
oh god i will get back to you lol...
OH WOW THATS ALOT TO READ ILL HAFTA *** BACK TO U
i'm sorry, my eyes glazed over after the first 700 words...
I hate to break it to you, but when a guy says something, he means it. They're not cryptic. When he said he didn't feel the same way you do, it's what he means. Stuff in the movies just doesn't happen.
Your safest bet is to move on. Get over him. Find someone willing to commit.
Sometimes guys like a girl and then break up with them when their emotions get all mixed up. My son wll not allow himself fall in love after a bad long term relationship that ended. He wants someone in his life as soon as he finds someone he ends it. Men do not handle their emotions well. Men sometimes just as we women decide the other person really isnt who we want to be with, and like the person so much and respect that person so much, that breaking up with them is so hard to take themselves the make a sloppy break up such as your guy has.
Make it easy on him. Move on, remain friends, but dont text and call all the time, after a relationship it takes time to sort out thoughts and get over it, let him get over it, you get over it and if your meant to still be friends let it happen naturally, not because one person pushed the other person.Did my boyfriend lie about not loving me back?
hes playing head games get away befor you get really really hurt, he doesnt know what he wants and your being a fool for keeping in touch an staying in his house hell never give you what you want move on an find someone who doesnt act like a little boy
oh god i will get back to you lol...
OH WOW THATS ALOT TO READ ILL HAFTA *** BACK TO U
i'm sorry, my eyes glazed over after the first 700 words...
I hate to break it to you, but when a guy says something, he means it. They're not cryptic. When he said he didn't feel the same way you do, it's what he means. Stuff in the movies just doesn't happen.
Your safest bet is to move on. Get over him. Find someone willing to commit.
HELP! Boyfriend problems.?
Alright. So I need your guys' help with something. I've been friends with this guy for 4 years now. We met when I was 15. He was 17. He took my virginity. We dated for a day. Then broke up and became friends. We've dated off and on for the past 4 years. He was dating another girl while I was dating another guy. Yet we were still friends at the time. So they break up and my boyfriend and I break up. So me and him decided to date again. We were having problems so we decided to break up. Then I find out on his birthday that I'm pregnant. *we weren't dating at the time* So we got back together for the babys sake.
Now to make a long story short. I'm 18 days away from giving birth, if that, and I feel like he doesn't like me anymore. He lives with me and he sleeps on the floor because he doesnt want to sleep with me. He always used to lay with me until I fell asleep and would tuck me in at the beginning of my pregnancy. We always used to have sex and cuddle and stuff. Now he barely kisses me, wont lay in bed with me, refuses to have anything sexual to do with me, and won't sleep with me. I'm extremely horomonal right now, but I'm starting to get the vibe that he doesn't like me anymore. And I've told him how I feel about how it hurts my feelings when he doesn't do those things anymore. But he doesn't care. It's not even just that i want sex. It helps get me ready for labor. It helps me dialate faster. He doesn't care. Now recently he's been talking to this girl who he used to have sex with all the time. He really liked her. I found out that he was hiding the fact that he was hanging out with her on Friday. And he went to hang out with her again today, only i tagged along. Oh and by the way, when i ask him why he doesn't want to have sex with me, he says ';i just lost the urge. its time to grow up.';
What should I think? What does it sound like to you?HELP! Boyfriend problems.?
it sounds like he ha moved on with his life. and he is just with you because of the baby. just try to remain friends with him because of the baby.HELP! Boyfriend problems.?
my opinion staying together because of the baby will not work.
if you guys do not want to stay together for each other, then the relationship will not last in the long run. now is a hard time for you, but you may have to face it that you guys are headed down seperate roads.
if he said that he did not want to have sex with you because he did not want to hurt the baby, I would beleive that, but his answer, I do not beleive.
you need to think about what is best for you and your baby.
it sounds like he really doesn't care about you and why should you care , Once your baby is born you will see that he (the baby) is the only one that you have to care about, and there the baby is not a valid reason to stay with a guy and be fighting all the time. when you have your baby try to get your body in shape, and make your life with your baby , if after that there still love in both sides well give him a chance. if not YOU DESERVE BETTER . that's what i thing everything else is on your hands you make your feature and you're baby's think about it.graphics for myspace coolest myspace
Now to make a long story short. I'm 18 days away from giving birth, if that, and I feel like he doesn't like me anymore. He lives with me and he sleeps on the floor because he doesnt want to sleep with me. He always used to lay with me until I fell asleep and would tuck me in at the beginning of my pregnancy. We always used to have sex and cuddle and stuff. Now he barely kisses me, wont lay in bed with me, refuses to have anything sexual to do with me, and won't sleep with me. I'm extremely horomonal right now, but I'm starting to get the vibe that he doesn't like me anymore. And I've told him how I feel about how it hurts my feelings when he doesn't do those things anymore. But he doesn't care. It's not even just that i want sex. It helps get me ready for labor. It helps me dialate faster. He doesn't care. Now recently he's been talking to this girl who he used to have sex with all the time. He really liked her. I found out that he was hiding the fact that he was hanging out with her on Friday. And he went to hang out with her again today, only i tagged along. Oh and by the way, when i ask him why he doesn't want to have sex with me, he says ';i just lost the urge. its time to grow up.';
What should I think? What does it sound like to you?HELP! Boyfriend problems.?
it sounds like he ha moved on with his life. and he is just with you because of the baby. just try to remain friends with him because of the baby.HELP! Boyfriend problems.?
my opinion staying together because of the baby will not work.
if you guys do not want to stay together for each other, then the relationship will not last in the long run. now is a hard time for you, but you may have to face it that you guys are headed down seperate roads.
if he said that he did not want to have sex with you because he did not want to hurt the baby, I would beleive that, but his answer, I do not beleive.
you need to think about what is best for you and your baby.
it sounds like he really doesn't care about you and why should you care , Once your baby is born you will see that he (the baby) is the only one that you have to care about, and there the baby is not a valid reason to stay with a guy and be fighting all the time. when you have your baby try to get your body in shape, and make your life with your baby , if after that there still love in both sides well give him a chance. if not YOU DESERVE BETTER . that's what i thing everything else is on your hands you make your feature and you're baby's think about it.
My boyfriend and I have had problems for a long time. We want to get back to normal now. How do we do that?
(This first paragraph is all over the place because so much has happened in the past 5 months, I don't know how to even start writing about it, so I'm just going to try and summarize the main points...if it doesn't make sense, I'm sorry)
Before I say anything, we're both males and this is our first relationship. My boyfriend and I have been fighting for about 5 months over stupid little things. I used to freak out on him for little stuff and my own insecurities. However, I used to ask him why he doesn't show me affection and he would say things like ';Why should I have to show you if you know it's there?'; and he'd also hide a lot of his past from me or keep secrets. As the fights progressively got worse, he would start saying really harsh, mean things like ';I'd rather watch porn than be with you. I hate you. You're not important to me, you're the bottom of the totem pole in my eyes. I don't even acknowledge your existence when I'm angry.'; and that made me cry countless times. We broke up twice last week but I managed to cool him down because we both know that we want to be with each other and we're amazingly compatible and have everything in common, we just have lots of cultural, family, and personal differences. He's asian and I'm white. He didn't grow up receiving a lot of attention or affection from his family, I grew up receiving a hell of a lot of attention and affection. He says privacy is the biggest thing in his life and I am an open book to the people I trust. He tells me that he loves me, but then he refuses to let me into his life, share things with me, tell me about his past, show me affection, give me attention, etc. Then he complains because I tell him that I doubt he loves me or I doubt he wants to be with me since he never shows anything. We will spend 5-6 hours a DAY fighting over this and last night, after a blow up, I looked at him and just said ';Really? You're going to break up with me because YOU constantly argue with me? I had problems in the past but as soon as you expressed dislike for it, I changed it for you. However, I tell you that I feel bad about things you do and say ';what can I do to help you feel better?'; so I tell you, but then you argue with me and say ';I shouldn't have to do that.'; An example is that if I tell him that I'm feeling down about something, he asked how he could help. I told him that he should give me encouraging words but instead, he blows up on me and is like ';WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS DOWN?'; Also, when we fight over something I can give him proof that he's wrong. Physical proof that his idea, feeling, tactic, whatever is the wrong way (or rather, not the quickest way to success/happiness...) to handle something, but he's like ';I don't care. I'm right. This is how I'll handle it and if I fail, I fail.';
Anyway, we decided last night that ultimately, we're done fighting and we just want to be happy with each other. I told him that I couldn't handle it anymore, that I was done with fighting and he just needed to give up fighting over STUPID things (that he even says are stupid! Yet, he still fights me over it.) During the conversation, he got really down and he was like ';Why do you want to be with me, I'm such a horrible, mean, cruel person to you and I treat you like crap...'; I told him that I could help him fix that if he'd just listen to me, so he agreed. After that, He told me how to take care of him, I told him how to take care of me and we're working really hard trying to please the other.
The problem now is that we're kind of awkward around each other now. We still touch each other, cuddle, kiss, talk, and hang out, but there are many long silences, many moments where we don't really do anything...and then we both get a little depressed because we remember the past and how much time we've spent in the past 5 months arguing and fighting over things that could have been solved in about 10 minutes. When that happens, we don't really want to do anything and we're just all blaaaaggghhh because we're depressed and fearful that the past will repeat itself over the littlest thing.
How do we get back to normal? How to we get back to smiling when we're around each other and laughing and being happy to have the other in our life? Back to just having a good time, enjoying each others' company, and just being fun...Do we just need time? The only problem with that is that he is moving 5 hours away in 11 days and we want to get to somewhat normal before he goes back.My boyfriend and I have had problems for a long time. We want to get back to normal now. How do we do that?
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Before I say anything, we're both males and this is our first relationship. My boyfriend and I have been fighting for about 5 months over stupid little things. I used to freak out on him for little stuff and my own insecurities. However, I used to ask him why he doesn't show me affection and he would say things like ';Why should I have to show you if you know it's there?'; and he'd also hide a lot of his past from me or keep secrets. As the fights progressively got worse, he would start saying really harsh, mean things like ';I'd rather watch porn than be with you. I hate you. You're not important to me, you're the bottom of the totem pole in my eyes. I don't even acknowledge your existence when I'm angry.'; and that made me cry countless times. We broke up twice last week but I managed to cool him down because we both know that we want to be with each other and we're amazingly compatible and have everything in common, we just have lots of cultural, family, and personal differences. He's asian and I'm white. He didn't grow up receiving a lot of attention or affection from his family, I grew up receiving a hell of a lot of attention and affection. He says privacy is the biggest thing in his life and I am an open book to the people I trust. He tells me that he loves me, but then he refuses to let me into his life, share things with me, tell me about his past, show me affection, give me attention, etc. Then he complains because I tell him that I doubt he loves me or I doubt he wants to be with me since he never shows anything. We will spend 5-6 hours a DAY fighting over this and last night, after a blow up, I looked at him and just said ';Really? You're going to break up with me because YOU constantly argue with me? I had problems in the past but as soon as you expressed dislike for it, I changed it for you. However, I tell you that I feel bad about things you do and say ';what can I do to help you feel better?'; so I tell you, but then you argue with me and say ';I shouldn't have to do that.'; An example is that if I tell him that I'm feeling down about something, he asked how he could help. I told him that he should give me encouraging words but instead, he blows up on me and is like ';WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS DOWN?'; Also, when we fight over something I can give him proof that he's wrong. Physical proof that his idea, feeling, tactic, whatever is the wrong way (or rather, not the quickest way to success/happiness...) to handle something, but he's like ';I don't care. I'm right. This is how I'll handle it and if I fail, I fail.';
Anyway, we decided last night that ultimately, we're done fighting and we just want to be happy with each other. I told him that I couldn't handle it anymore, that I was done with fighting and he just needed to give up fighting over STUPID things (that he even says are stupid! Yet, he still fights me over it.) During the conversation, he got really down and he was like ';Why do you want to be with me, I'm such a horrible, mean, cruel person to you and I treat you like crap...'; I told him that I could help him fix that if he'd just listen to me, so he agreed. After that, He told me how to take care of him, I told him how to take care of me and we're working really hard trying to please the other.
The problem now is that we're kind of awkward around each other now. We still touch each other, cuddle, kiss, talk, and hang out, but there are many long silences, many moments where we don't really do anything...and then we both get a little depressed because we remember the past and how much time we've spent in the past 5 months arguing and fighting over things that could have been solved in about 10 minutes. When that happens, we don't really want to do anything and we're just all blaaaaggghhh because we're depressed and fearful that the past will repeat itself over the littlest thing.
How do we get back to normal? How to we get back to smiling when we're around each other and laughing and being happy to have the other in our life? Back to just having a good time, enjoying each others' company, and just being fun...Do we just need time? The only problem with that is that he is moving 5 hours away in 11 days and we want to get to somewhat normal before he goes back.My boyfriend and I have had problems for a long time. We want to get back to normal now. How do we do that?
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Guys if your girlfriend is very shy but you really love her and want to have sex with her?
what would you do? How would you help her to open up? I'm a very shy and conservative girl, me and my boyfriend sleep over at each other's place sometimes, same bed. We will hug and cuddle and are very close but no sex. I really love him but i'm kind of scare. What should I do?Guys if your girlfriend is very shy but you really love her and want to have sex with her?
I can understand being scared. Let me ask you some questions:
Are you ready to have sex?
Are you ready to care for a baby which could potentially come from the encounter? (No method of contraception is 100% fail-safe.)
Are you ready to deal with an STD for the rest of your life, should you contract one from the encounter? (Unless you both get blood tests and come up clean, that is always a possibility -- no condom is 100% guaranteed not to break.)
If you answered 'yes' to each of these questions, you are ready to have sex. If you answered 'no' to even one of them, you should really wait because you aren't ready.Guys if your girlfriend is very shy but you really love her and want to have sex with her?
then dont do it. ur not ready.-honestly
trust him and use a condom,,,wat are u scared of??pain or getting preg??
You wait until shes ready. If you try to pressure her, you're a jerk.
I can understand being scared. Let me ask you some questions:
Are you ready to have sex?
Are you ready to care for a baby which could potentially come from the encounter? (No method of contraception is 100% fail-safe.)
Are you ready to deal with an STD for the rest of your life, should you contract one from the encounter? (Unless you both get blood tests and come up clean, that is always a possibility -- no condom is 100% guaranteed not to break.)
If you answered 'yes' to each of these questions, you are ready to have sex. If you answered 'no' to even one of them, you should really wait because you aren't ready.Guys if your girlfriend is very shy but you really love her and want to have sex with her?
then dont do it. ur not ready.-honestly
trust him and use a condom,,,wat are u scared of??pain or getting preg??
You wait until shes ready. If you try to pressure her, you're a jerk.
Boyfriend think I don't love him because we don't have sex often. Warning, very LONG.?
We have been toegether for 3 years. Outside the bedroom, our relationship is wonderful. We have the same humor, he's supportive, funny, I've never met anyone who compliments me more, he's helpful, and easy to get along with. We've lived together for about 2 years now. We own a home, so over the last few years we've accumulated quite a few bills, which can be stressful on the relationship. Here's where the major problem hits. Our sex life. It's never been crazy or frequent or anything but it was more steady. I've never been very sexual, and can go months without it, no problem. My boyfriend thinks my reason for not having sex is that I don't love him. It has nothing to do with it. But when he wants it, he wants it right THEN and THERE! No romance, and its not sutble. He starts gropeing and I push him off because it makes me highly uncomfortable. Then he gets all drama queen, ';Fine, I'll never touch you again!';. My last serious relationship which lasted 3 years as well, he pushed me around and made me feel bad for everything, so from then on I havnt let anyone push me around or make me feel bad for something I feel strongly about. I don't feel bad about not making myself have sex, just for him. I've tried many many times, very straight forward how I felt and that maybe if he was more romantic, it would happen more. Or if he wasn't so aggresive. I've explained the bills make me somewhat stressed.. I've been extremely open and honest about it. I've never said ';ITS YOUR FAULT'; or anything like that. He also, always been paranoid. He thinks theres always someone else, and he most frequent is he thinks i dont love him enough. I love him plently as long as he isnt acting like a rapeist. (i think thats strong but thats how strong he can come on sometimes). He complains I don't show enough affection, which is kind of true because everytime I get close to even cuddle, he starts staring down my shirt, or grabbing my boobs, or my ***. And not just laying his hand there, I mean GRABBING. I do love him, dearly, but how on earth can I get my point across, and teach him to take things slowly when it comes to sex. Not step by step but, make him more subtle and gradually be more romantic. I know I have a few things to work on as well, and I try but I've realized whats going on, he's still confused on why I dont want sex. Even after explaination. He doesnt try to change even a small bit. Sorry this was so long, and problably confusing as hell. Thanks to all that take the time to read it and soak it in. =)Boyfriend think I don't love him because we don't have sex often. Warning, very LONG.?
I know all to well this situation. My girlfriend and I are going through the same thing. I am beginning to understand that the reason she does not want it is not because she doesn't like me but its because of other reasons like me always picking the wrong time.
I too acted paranoid and things seemed to go downhill from there, but i began to take a new outlook on the situation. I was scared that my girl was gonna leave me because of how big of a dick i was acting, so i decided to let her take the reins so to speak and not try anything unless she initiated it.
If your man really loves you, he would not try and rape you just to get some. He would do the romantic thing and not go straight to sex. Since you already told him this, be more stern with him. Give him ultimatums like ';if you pull that again I am going to leave you.';
If he pulls the drama queen thing again and says ';fine you don't love me'; then reply with ';if you keep forcing me to do something im not comfortable with then your the one who does not love me because you don't respect me'; or something to that effect.
The fact that your not having much sex with him should not tell him that you don't love him it should be a signal to tell him that he is being to aggressive and not being a gentleman.
Long Question comes with a Long Reply.
I know all to well this situation. My girlfriend and I are going through the same thing. I am beginning to understand that the reason she does not want it is not because she doesn't like me but its because of other reasons like me always picking the wrong time.
I too acted paranoid and things seemed to go downhill from there, but i began to take a new outlook on the situation. I was scared that my girl was gonna leave me because of how big of a dick i was acting, so i decided to let her take the reins so to speak and not try anything unless she initiated it.
If your man really loves you, he would not try and rape you just to get some. He would do the romantic thing and not go straight to sex. Since you already told him this, be more stern with him. Give him ultimatums like ';if you pull that again I am going to leave you.';
If he pulls the drama queen thing again and says ';fine you don't love me'; then reply with ';if you keep forcing me to do something im not comfortable with then your the one who does not love me because you don't respect me'; or something to that effect.
The fact that your not having much sex with him should not tell him that you don't love him it should be a signal to tell him that he is being to aggressive and not being a gentleman.
Long Question comes with a Long Reply.
Question about Pit Bulls and Dogs in general?
My boyfriend's 3 month old american pit bull warmed up to me over the last 2 days. All i did was pet him and cuddle him. He even growled at my bf's friend when he came over yesterday. Is that his way of ';protecting'; us? He's only been with us for about 3 days. I have never really been around dogs, so i dont really know how to ';socialize'; with them. I have never fed him, so i just want to ask the dog lovers why they think the pit bull is bonding with me? Do dogs bond with people who DON';T feed them? Is he learning to ';protect'; us? Is this instinct? And also, how do you teach the pit not to growl? Should we take him to be trained? I dont want a dangerous dog. Thank you for your feedback.Question about Pit Bulls and Dogs in general?
Some dogs are just attracted to people. You were nice to him and he probably though ';hey, this is alright,';.
Now when it comes to socializing him, take him to puppy classes. Take him with you on outings to friends and family's houses. Get them to come over and give him treats and play with him at your house.
It may take a while before he's used to being around people he doesn't know and is comfortable, but it'll most likely work out.
Also, don't hit your dog ever. Especially dogs taught to handle pain like a bull dog breed. This won't work. Instead use verbal commands. Tell him no and remove him from a negative situation. Reward him with a treat or verbal praise when he does something proper.
Good luck with the new pup. Pits are great family dogs when raised right. You're in for a treat.Question about Pit Bulls and Dogs in general?
First off, I would very much discourage any type of any type of physical reprimand such as a pop on the nose. Try noise aversion first. Everytime the dog does something you don't like either yell really loudly or bang a couple pots together. That way the dog will associate bad behavior with loud scary noises. Just be sure you don't make eye contact during these noises so the dog doesn't associate those noises with you.
And yes, pups that young will bond with just about anyone who is kind and loving towards them. At this age I would highly suggest puppy classes for one but also introducing that dog to as many other dogs and animals as possible. Pits, like many other dogs, have a bit of a prey drive meaning that small, fuzzy and quick equals happy fun chasing time followed by happy fun snack time. To avoid this with animals like cats and birds have the dog meet them. Get him used to the thought that cats are not large rodents and are not snack material.
As for the growling, it's probably just fear. The dog is still really young and small yet. Try giving the dog a treat everytime they meet a stranger, while on a walk or at home, and the dog will soon think of meeting new people as a treat. Pits are NOT gaurd dogs, they were never meant to be and while some can be trained into the role, most are far to happy to meet new people to do a good job guarding. Try checking out a couple books on the breed to help better understand them.
My pitt bonded with my 2 yr niece and my niece does not feed her. The dog bonded with you because you where nice to it, you petted and cuddle him. I would sagest both you and your BF take the dog to be trained.
growling at that age is usually fear based, not protective instinct. He needs to be taken out to differnet people and situations to become stable, or he will develop issues and may become a fear biter. He should NEVER be growling at people you accept into your household. What did you do when he did that? He needed a reprimand.
well my dog (chow/shephard mix) always growls/barks when the doorbell rings or when someone she never met before comes through the door. i think it is because your dog is trying to ';protect you'; and it isnt anything out of the ordinary.
Sorry I am not going to answer this question like everybodyeles. I DO NOT agree with sephoramoon because she says pitbulls are traditionally agressive. WRONG it is all in the way you raise them so don't believe everything everybody says that they are mean love all pitbulls and rotty's even if they are mean.
One HUGE thing (and you can see about working with a trainer on this: and anyone who says that they will train your dog w/o you there is full of crap. owners need to be trained WITH the dog!) is establish a command word now. It is possible to train a dog to ';stand down'; on command, but continue to react (growl and bark) until the ';stand down'; command is given.
And yes, dogs will bond with one family member more strongly than any other and it isn't always the one that feeds them
Yes, training is ideal for these larger more traditionally aggressive breeds. Not to say this dog would harm anyone, but it's a great idea to teach the dog some boundaries and respect for it's masters.
Good Luck ;)
Popping him on the nose isn't a good thing. Unless you are interested in having him not trust you at all..
It's not his way of being protective.. You are not teaching him to be a protection dog.. You are teaching him to be POSSESSIVE.. Keep that up and see how long til he bites the bf... You will have a dangerous dog if you keep going.
Both you and the dog need training classes.. You should buy some books on dogs and learn more how to raise a strong dog.. But don't forget the classes you'll want that training and socialization.
Don't let him growl anymore, 3 months and growling in an APBT is not a good sign.
This is the perfect age for training -- consult with a certified trainer or take him through obedience classes. You owe it to the puppy, and the breed as a whole, to set a good example of responsible pet ownership.
i used to own a pit.. my advice would be to let everyone and anyone who is friendly to come over.. and let the dog get to know him/her. THat way the dog will b friendly with most people. the dogs like companionship more then food.. i know, my boyfriend played with out dog all the time.. I';M The one who fed her.. and she liked him more lol
OK im am an american pitbull owner myself, they do bond with people who dont feed them you cuddled with him thats a way of bonding.I feed my dog and he loves my husband,but he has never growled at neither one of us.I wouldnt pop him on the nose that is an aggressive behavior,he will try to bite your hand. Or anyone I never taken my pit to training school or anything,another way you both can bond, training can be fun. Pitbulls are very smart. Socialization is very important!!!!!! Every chance i get i take my puppy to the store to meet people,from old to young. Now I have alway had my puppy around dogs. I just do that slowly.Pitbulls are people pleasers. Now i have a question you said its your b/fs pitbull butwhen he came over he growled at him. I would give him a treat everytime someone comes over he thinks it as people come over as a treat. I really dont think hes being aggressive but i would stop the growling now while hes still young GOOD LUCK! Oh and for the people who think that pitbulls are born mean an aggressive dont know ,do your homework. Its in the way you raise them.. just like a baby..
Here is a site that helped me alot! www.pitbulllovers.com check it out.
Some dogs are just attracted to people. You were nice to him and he probably though ';hey, this is alright,';.
Now when it comes to socializing him, take him to puppy classes. Take him with you on outings to friends and family's houses. Get them to come over and give him treats and play with him at your house.
It may take a while before he's used to being around people he doesn't know and is comfortable, but it'll most likely work out.
Also, don't hit your dog ever. Especially dogs taught to handle pain like a bull dog breed. This won't work. Instead use verbal commands. Tell him no and remove him from a negative situation. Reward him with a treat or verbal praise when he does something proper.
Good luck with the new pup. Pits are great family dogs when raised right. You're in for a treat.Question about Pit Bulls and Dogs in general?
First off, I would very much discourage any type of any type of physical reprimand such as a pop on the nose. Try noise aversion first. Everytime the dog does something you don't like either yell really loudly or bang a couple pots together. That way the dog will associate bad behavior with loud scary noises. Just be sure you don't make eye contact during these noises so the dog doesn't associate those noises with you.
And yes, pups that young will bond with just about anyone who is kind and loving towards them. At this age I would highly suggest puppy classes for one but also introducing that dog to as many other dogs and animals as possible. Pits, like many other dogs, have a bit of a prey drive meaning that small, fuzzy and quick equals happy fun chasing time followed by happy fun snack time. To avoid this with animals like cats and birds have the dog meet them. Get him used to the thought that cats are not large rodents and are not snack material.
As for the growling, it's probably just fear. The dog is still really young and small yet. Try giving the dog a treat everytime they meet a stranger, while on a walk or at home, and the dog will soon think of meeting new people as a treat. Pits are NOT gaurd dogs, they were never meant to be and while some can be trained into the role, most are far to happy to meet new people to do a good job guarding. Try checking out a couple books on the breed to help better understand them.
My pitt bonded with my 2 yr niece and my niece does not feed her. The dog bonded with you because you where nice to it, you petted and cuddle him. I would sagest both you and your BF take the dog to be trained.
growling at that age is usually fear based, not protective instinct. He needs to be taken out to differnet people and situations to become stable, or he will develop issues and may become a fear biter. He should NEVER be growling at people you accept into your household. What did you do when he did that? He needed a reprimand.
well my dog (chow/shephard mix) always growls/barks when the doorbell rings or when someone she never met before comes through the door. i think it is because your dog is trying to ';protect you'; and it isnt anything out of the ordinary.
Sorry I am not going to answer this question like everybodyeles. I DO NOT agree with sephoramoon because she says pitbulls are traditionally agressive. WRONG it is all in the way you raise them so don't believe everything everybody says that they are mean love all pitbulls and rotty's even if they are mean.
One HUGE thing (and you can see about working with a trainer on this: and anyone who says that they will train your dog w/o you there is full of crap. owners need to be trained WITH the dog!) is establish a command word now. It is possible to train a dog to ';stand down'; on command, but continue to react (growl and bark) until the ';stand down'; command is given.
And yes, dogs will bond with one family member more strongly than any other and it isn't always the one that feeds them
Yes, training is ideal for these larger more traditionally aggressive breeds. Not to say this dog would harm anyone, but it's a great idea to teach the dog some boundaries and respect for it's masters.
Good Luck ;)
Popping him on the nose isn't a good thing. Unless you are interested in having him not trust you at all..
It's not his way of being protective.. You are not teaching him to be a protection dog.. You are teaching him to be POSSESSIVE.. Keep that up and see how long til he bites the bf... You will have a dangerous dog if you keep going.
Both you and the dog need training classes.. You should buy some books on dogs and learn more how to raise a strong dog.. But don't forget the classes you'll want that training and socialization.
Don't let him growl anymore, 3 months and growling in an APBT is not a good sign.
This is the perfect age for training -- consult with a certified trainer or take him through obedience classes. You owe it to the puppy, and the breed as a whole, to set a good example of responsible pet ownership.
i used to own a pit.. my advice would be to let everyone and anyone who is friendly to come over.. and let the dog get to know him/her. THat way the dog will b friendly with most people. the dogs like companionship more then food.. i know, my boyfriend played with out dog all the time.. I';M The one who fed her.. and she liked him more lol
OK im am an american pitbull owner myself, they do bond with people who dont feed them you cuddled with him thats a way of bonding.I feed my dog and he loves my husband,but he has never growled at neither one of us.I wouldnt pop him on the nose that is an aggressive behavior,he will try to bite your hand. Or anyone I never taken my pit to training school or anything,another way you both can bond, training can be fun. Pitbulls are very smart. Socialization is very important!!!!!! Every chance i get i take my puppy to the store to meet people,from old to young. Now I have alway had my puppy around dogs. I just do that slowly.Pitbulls are people pleasers. Now i have a question you said its your b/fs pitbull butwhen he came over he growled at him. I would give him a treat everytime someone comes over he thinks it as people come over as a treat. I really dont think hes being aggressive but i would stop the growling now while hes still young GOOD LUCK! Oh and for the people who think that pitbulls are born mean an aggressive dont know ,do your homework. Its in the way you raise them.. just like a baby..
Here is a site that helped me alot! www.pitbulllovers.com check it out.
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