i am extremely depressed, it is probably through desire for a girlfriend and i haven't ever had 1.
im 17 and believe that by now i should have at least had 1 or something, even a first kiss, and i want a girlfriend that is like me, who has never had a boyfriend or anything so we can share first experiences together, but all girls round where i live have all got boyfriends, and they all had them since they wear 14 and were having sex and stuff at that age. i wont be bothered if they have had 1 but i just think it would be nice to have it that way
if i wanted a girlfriend like i want they would have to be about 13 and i don't want to go out with any1 that age because it would be immoral, im also afraid of going out with girls my own age now because i think that i might be too emotionally immature in a relationship as i haven't had one yet and allowed myself to grow in experience of relationships to get the girls i want.
i know a girlfriend may not be the answer to my problems, but i think it will make me happier and take me out of my depressive state.
i have tried to get girls before, but i have always been turned down by them, i do sports, play an instrument, and have hobbies that i like to do to take up my time and take my mind of it.
in the end i wind up at the end of the day crying myself to sleep because of this.
it seems like i will never get the girl i want, i bet they don't want a boyfriend like me who probably doesn't know how to do stuff right like a boyfriend should, the way id want to treat a girl to would be wanting to give her all my free time, take her out to nice places, always want to hold onto them like cuddling or at minimum holding hands or something similar. id want to spend all my money on them to get them anything they want, if i could id want to give them the entire world.
i don't have any one to talk to this stuff about ether, i don't have a dad, i have recently segregated myself from my friends because they were bullying me and getting me in trouble and stuff, i don't have any other family members id feel comfortable talking to this stuff about.
and just to let people know, don't say get over your depression, as it isn't as easy as that, i have tried it and it ended up putting me in a worse please than i already was.Depressed and in need of help please?
You are depressed because you do not have a girlfriend... and you are 17 years old???! ... have you seen the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin? ... hold on to your virginity!... i do not let my daughters date guys until they graduate from college... after they earned their Phd !!!Depressed and in need of help please?
Sounds like you have minor depression, if that tbh.
You simply just want someone to reach out to. You sound like your feeling lonely and perhaps everyone around you is taken?
Don't get upset about it. There is a girl for everyone out there and you will find her. She will be looking for you while your looking for her. Wait for her. You don't want her to think your desperate do you?
You say your 17...why are you worrying? Most relationships that people get into your age fail anyway. It's best to wait. That way both of you will be mature young adults when you meet.
You have friends to talk to and who cares if they have girlfriends are you don't? They are coming across as weaker then you by acting like they need one at their age. Relax and wait for her to come to you.
If you seem to eager, she will always be a bit freaked out and say no.
i am 18 i havent really dated either.
you shouldnt think too much about it. the more you think about it the worse it gets. just wait i bet there is someone out there just for you.
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