For men: how do some guys do this?

I have several friends who needless to say are blind that their boyfriends are cheating on them.





How is it that guys go about doing this and not even feel bad? You know cuddle up to your girlfriend at night tell her you love them and say ';I'm going to a friends'; bang another girl and come back to sleep with your girlfriend. I'm asking this to men who cheat, how CAN you do this? These girls are smart, gorgeous, going somewhere in life and love their boyfriend! (They don't even look at other guys when I tell them to check a guy out!)For men: how do some guys do this?
Guys don't ''feel bad'' much. It's a great boost to a guys ego to cheat and fool a woman, in fact.





A guy can do this easily. Guys can separate love and sex. Love is a special connection you have with one woman; Sex is a enjoyable activity. Love and sex are not connected in a guys mind. So a guy can have sex and not feel anything for the woman.





A guy would say he is not 'cheating', per say. Cheating for a guy would be to be emotionally involved with another woman, to love another woman. Sex is just an act, that has no meaning.For men: how do some guys do this?
love and sex are too different things to a man. He loves his girl but his girl does not fit to do the things he enjoys doing. Like having really dirty sex on the floor or table what ever she is willing to please him. Now the one he loves is more conservative just not as dirty as the other one so that's why some men cheat on there girl friend or just maybe the other one is better looking and he has a chance to just have sex with no ties...
The men in their lives don't have true love them, if he did it would be unconditionally.