How can i get her back when she is ready why did she start to be my girlfriend in the 1st place?

Girls would you ask your boyfriend for a break if you were really busy and you never get to see him?


so you could concentrate on your studies? she is in her last year of uni and she works in the weekends too she ever gets time to do much we were going out for 2 months but she was my friend first we have been friend for ages she asked for a break cause she didn't have time for me and didn't want to lead me on(but she still wants to be friends) she said that she thinks that i think of this relationship is more than what she thinks it is.





i don't even know what it wilturnrn out to be but all i know is that when i was with her i was happy and she was too i still love her(i never told her that) and care for her alot now i don't know what to do just leave her be until she is ready or what?? it's been 2 and a half months since she wanted the break and txt a bit and we have been to the movies(she invited me) i have been over to her house for tea(cause her mum invited me ) and she was ok around me i guess she looked a bit nervous but after we joked around a bit she was fine.





she invited me to performancests she is going before the break on the weekend what do i do miss heterriblyie and i keep thinkin on one hand i want her back,will we ever get back together.


and on the other hand i think if we do what is stoppin her from doing this again when she gets busy or scared





how can i get her back she is and was the best thing that ever happend to me after uni is over how can i ask her if she wants to go out again i miss kissing and cuddling her so much it's that last thing i think of before i go to bed





serious answers pleaseHow can i get her back when she is ready why did she start to be my girlfriend in the 1st place?
awwww babe. That's really sweet.





Tell her that you will support her through these busy and toungh times, and that you are willing to wait for her. More often than not this makes a girl feel weak and tremble cuz it's so sweet :L And probably means you'll get her back soooner.


Also, tell her that you still love her and that is still very important to you.


Let her know that she always has you to turn to if she needs help with uni or anything, and just give her her space and let her come to you when she needs you.





If that fails, then just ask her straight out whether she actually wants to ever be back with you, no matter how far in the future. If she says, no, don't take it too personally. Just give her her space and go out with some friends to try to move on. I know it will be hard, but try your best.








I hope this helps, and good luck =] You seem like a real nice guy so I hope it works out =]





Ajay xHow can i get her back when she is ready why did she start to be my girlfriend in the 1st place?
Just start seeing other girls while on your break from her. She will either freak out and want you back, or she won't care. Either way, you'll know her true feelings for you.
';she said that she thinks that i think of this relationship is more than what she thinks it is.';


HUGE red flag right there. She is telling you that she doesn't want to be your girlfriend anymore. She's trying to let you down gently and all but honestly, just wants to be ';just friends';. She's thinking that some distance will give you time to find someone else or maybe just move on and lose interest in her that way.


Sorry, but the best thing you can do is wish her well and move on.
You were more into her than she was into you, sadly. It may sound blunt, but she really was just trying to not lead you on. She isn't in the right place in her life for a relationship right now.