Monday, August 16, 2010

My girlfriend thinks I'm not interested in her?

Would you be mad at your boyfriend if he didn't make love with you if you've been together for 5 years? My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years and she thinks I'm not interested in her. She also thinks that I don't find her beautiful. I am interested in her and thinks she is the most beautiful and sweetest girl in the whole world. I'm very much fallen in love with her. I will want to marry her someday. I hold her hand, kiss her, caress her back while making out, tell her sweet things, cuddle with her, and hold her. She's the only girl I want. There's no way that I would ever cheat on her. I love her too much for her to get hurt. I don't want to make love ever because it seems perverted. She's getting depressed that I don't want to make love with her but I'm pretty much fallen in love with her and have strong feelings for her. How do I make her feel better?My girlfriend thinks I'm not interested in her?
You don't want to ever make love to her? Sounds like you have different issues. I can see waiting until marriage, but never making love to her even after you're married will cause problems. I don't mean to be mean, but love sounds like it's not enough. Sex is not a perverted thing, it's a beautiful thing that you have a chance to share with the one you love. But do share with her what you told us, she'll appreciate knowing, and maybe she'll be more understanding.My girlfriend thinks I'm not interested in her?
well that is weird...just explain that to her i guess what guy doesn't want sex? weird...hmm? well anyways i think i would fell like that too...but sex brings u all closer though, but just show her ur love in all different ways...i feel like that wit my bf sometimes, but i fell like that bcuz i love him so much, i do not want to lose him...
So you abstain from sex in your relationship? Does she know this? And why? You said you think it's perverted so you may have the wrong idea about sex. Sex between two people who love each other is not perverted. Maybe you two need to talk and find out why you have such a skewed view on sex.
By telling her everything you just wrote on here its very deep and hope she and you can come to an understanding, good luck!
she will certainly like and love you, the manner she has behaved
make love to her !!!
Think of what you are asking of her. You want to marry her, but after 5 years, have you asked her? Also, you don't want to make love, so you are making her go without. Sex between 2 people in love is perfectly natural and normal. There are also health benefits proven by the medical community for decades. You are asking her to give up all of that, including the emotional intimacy involved. You are asking her to give up possibly having children.





She has stayed this long, so she obviously loves you to. I would strongly recommend seeing a counselor, alone and with her to figure out what your hang up is with sex. It doesn't have to be perverted, and it completely natural. It can be an expression of your affection, not what the porn industry makes it out ot be.
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