Whats the best or most romantic way to bring up the topic SEX with your boyfriend?

When we have not had sex yet? We've been in a relationship and living together for 5 months. I've never had a relationship before that lasted this long, even though I'm 21; in the past I've never felt anything ';special'; with anyone I've been with, I've always had a hard time trusting people. I've never been this happy in a relationship before, I knew I was in love with him after 4 months, and ever since then everynight in bed before he will fall asleep he will always hear ';I love you';...But he had never said it back to me, I knew it would take time for him. 2 nights ago while we were in bed at around midnight we stayed awake and talk about everything (we do this everynight) and after there was a few minutes of silence while sleep was just about to step in, He said it ';I think I'm in love with you...I love you'; I was speachless, but it was the happiest moment in my life, the happiest words I've ever heard anyone ever say to me and that will always be my most favorite memory forever.





I knew it would take time, He has never been in love before this and neither have I. Even though I am 21 years old, I AM a virgin and never did anything sexual with anyone else in my life, He is also a virgin, but he is only 16. Even though we have been sleeping in the same bed basically since we moved in together, we never discussed sex, but I knew in his mind he was going to wait, so was I. I've given him a handjob before but not seriously, other than that he's only really been smothered with cuddles hugs and kisses. (We're in Canada and the legal age is 16) so thats not something we are worried about.





I know now I want have sex, and I know its for him and ONLY him...I don't really know how to bring it up with him now, now that he finally told me he was in love with me and that I know now. What would be the best way to bring this topic up, which will be tomorrow?Whats the best or most romantic way to bring up the topic SEX with your boyfriend?
Get some nice smelling oils and give him a nassage. See what develops, you don`t have to vocalise specifics, He`ll get the message!Whats the best or most romantic way to bring up the topic SEX with your boyfriend?
Your brave, but before you brooch the subject of sex, i think you ought to be more intimate, eg. handjobs, blowjobs, him fingering you. maybe you could toss him off, and then aterwars tellhim you need to talk about it. good luck!
Screw all of the anwsers if you pass the age of consent law in your country. And, likewise, then tell your boyfriend you want to screw him. Not so difficult. Clumsy at first; but practice makes perfect.
16? yikes.





thats pretty disturbing.
It will happen naturally. Don't rush it.
Just bring it up.





If I was 16, I would like to get sexual with any woman who looks decent.
When its ready to happen, it will happen, just give it time.
Wow youve just given hope to all the 16 year old boys in the world lol
wait for him to turn 21 then talk about sex,he is 16 for crying out loud what does he know about love.
if you want to bring it up do it after some foreplay


it would be easier if you was both already naked.
thats disgusting, he's 16?





its gross not to mention illegal to have sex with him.
This is a joke right !!!!
Dood where's my country.


Get on with it for gods sake
Don't wanna rain on your parade ... but I guess I will in a way. You obviously decided to wait with sex for some reason or due to sth. Don't go changing that just because someone tells you that they love you. People tend to say all sorts of things. You are both young and have the whole life ahead of ya. Not like it will go away or w/e. It's always worth to wait for that special 'first time' be it with your ever first partner or just a new one.
age doesnt matter. anyway play ';My humps by blackeyed peas'; or ';Touch my body'; by mariah carey. If you want to have sex that go change your clothes and make sure he is watching then let him see your bear back. Then he will be so horny. Go to the bed and jump on him and start unzipping his jeans and say....';f*** the **** out of me'; or ';Stick your bone in me as hard as you can';





Don't forget a condom. Happy sex!