Would you forgive your boyfriend if he..?

i feel so stupid sometimes when i look into my bf eyes.. were expecting a baby. but a year ago, when we first started dating, he cheated on me.


with my so called best friend.


they saw each other more than once.


%26amp; i forgave him! he went to jail for 6 months, then when he came out, he asked me back out %26amp; i took him back. but now i cant really trust him when i don't know what hes doing. don't get me wrong, i love him. but now when i look at him sometimes i swear, i can see her. %26amp; how he said he loved her, when he was supposed to love me. %26amp; when im cuddling in his arms, i know his arms were around her when they weren't around me. im so confused.. and depressed. he says hes changed, hes in love with me... but my heart.. i don't know if it can handle another heartbreak... so i push him away sometimes... %26amp;%26amp; i can tell he's hurting, but im dying inside... i don't know what to do... i feel so stupid for taking him back...%26amp;%26amp; after a year, i still can't get it out of my head... its like a nightmare. please someone, understand how i feel...Would you forgive your boyfriend if he..?
yeah, i would just drop this dude. no matter what else you can forgive, the cheating thing is never going to go away. it will always haunt you, whether he does it or not (and he probably does), you will be thinking about it and hurting, and you have done nothing wrong at all. he makes you suffer, and you deserve a much better chance at happiness then the 0% this loser seems to offer you.Would you forgive your boyfriend if he..?
Been there,Done that. You will never trust him again no matter what.If u dont have trust u dont have anything! And if they do it once,They will do it again.If he really cared for u,he wouldnt of done that in the first place. Move on sweetie.
hoesntly, yo u need to talk to him.


tell him how you feel.


\if he really loves you


he has to prove he should be trusted, and when a guy usallu gets into that position, he will do what he can.





good luck hun
YOU CAN DO BETTER
Get out while you can
i understand, how u love himm soo much and cant let him go evn tho he hurt u and coukd again. it reli sucks. if u beleve his changes stay with him but have a serios talk. dont give him any more chances
amen ! alei louya merry christhmas
Cheats... Jail...





Got yourself a keeper!
Well I couldn't forgive him.....





I hope nothing happens.





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The worst kind of people thrive on the indulgence of a good person's understanding and forgiveness.





I'm not going to tell you to leave him or stay, but you can't hide from the truth.





If he's cheated on you...more than once, and he has gained your forgiveness and the illusion of your trust, then there is no reason for him not to try it again.





Some guys just like to see what they can get away with.





Should he realize the emotional state you are in, and with an expected child as insurance of your tolerance, he may take complete advantage of you, knowing in his mind that there isn't a thing you can do about it.





This is really up in the air...I have no way of knowing him.





All I can really say is that some people can't be trust under any circumstances, and some people just can't change.
Here is another test... is he working???


If he is working...he wouldn't have the time or the energy to be screwing around and getting into trouble. Even if the job is for minimum wage that is what he should be doing. For God sake, he has a baby on the way!





If he can not be self-motivated to be working 14 to 16 hours a day to provide for himself, you and the baby (no excuses are good enough). Then, he is a total L-O-S-E-R! If he has any drug or alcohol use going on then there is something wrong with you. Each time you let an opportunity slip by hour by hour...day by day you and the baby will be lower and lower on the food chain. It is now or never... and it applies to you too. You can not blame others and the recession...just work no matter what OR you all get what you put into it NOTHING! It is a waste of time to be playing emotional head trips on each other. Time for action not immaturity...it is about the baby not you and him.





I bet you are so self-focused and immature you won't pick my answer even tho you know I am right! Let's see???

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