If you were forced to have sex by your boyfriend, would you still be with him?

I'm not sure whether or not i should still be with this guy, he did force me to have sex with him, but he seems really sorry about it, he does everything for me, even if i don't ask to, he constantly tells me how much he love's me, and buys me everything, even when i really don't want anything, or if he thinks i'm still hungry (from the last hundred meals he bought me to eat), but he's clingy, he always wants to have his arm on my shoulder or around my waist, or hold hands, he's gives me tons of hugs and gives me a million kisses (not on the mouth) and when i'm over his house he always wants to just lay down together and cuddle and just talk about random things, i mean he sounds like a great guy b/c he is and your probably wondering why i'm complaining when probably million's of people want their boyfriend's to be like this, i'm just overall confused, you know, i haven't had time to just soak up everything that's happened and really have time to think about it, i mean the first time you have sex you were forced to. I mean if you were in my postion would you trust him and still be with him? Do you think he'll do it again or does it seem like he's changed? What should i do? It might fill you in if you read my other questionsIf you were forced to have sex by your boyfriend, would you still be with him?
If a guy forces you to have sex with him, even if it's not by force (he guilts you into it) it is rape. Leave him.If you were forced to have sex by your boyfriend, would you still be with him?
he sounds like a really great guy and is sorry that he wanted to do it do it. i would still be with him but also be honest and be like i don't want to have sex.tell him your greatfull for him but he doesn't have to buy you everything unless you like it :D


good luck
dump the prick All he wanted is sex and all he is doing is trying to ease his pain not yours, he is a date rapist get the heck out of the situation and never ever let a jerk put you in that situation again, Sex comes with love not coercing you to give your body to some jerk you may pick up some disease from.
Young lady, He raped you! He is sick. You cannot continue seeing him. You should report this to your parents he needs to be prosecuted. He is going to do this to the next girl and the next girl. he is emotionally bribing you so that you won't tell. He is sick. You cannot do this anymore. Please to save the next girl you have to tell if not for yourself
I only read the first sentence as thats the only important part. No no and hell no. I dont care if he's sorry, are you kidding me, whats to stop him from doing it again and then apologizing to you again. Im a guy btw. Dump his *** and seriously think about reporting this to the police.
It is a huge indicator for future behavior. If a man can't control hiumself when he is horny, how will he be able to control himself any other time?





And a man should NEVER force a woman to have sex. I don't even care if alcohol is involved. No, means NO!
yes it seems you have a really good boyfriend, personally i could put up with all the affection.......but no way should he have forced you into having sex!!!!





i know hes sorry but come on!! what was going through mind thinking he could treat you like that!





dump him...
If you were forced to have sex with him, you should report him to the police and get a restraining order. This man is clingy and controlling and will probably end up abusing you later on.
Er... anyone who FORCES you to have sex doesn't give a crap about you. Dump the bastard. Sex is supposed to be something two people enjoy - whatever he says and does, you need to dump him.
Me?


I wouldn't still be with him.


But it's really your choice. If you know he loves you and you absolutely know it then stay with him. If you have doubts or question it, dump him.
something very similar happend to me as well





but he dumped me afterwards...





i was so stupid, but anyways thats a diffrent story.





i think u should tak 2 him n tell him how that made u feel





n well i wish u the best of luck :)
I would definitly dump him, looks like all he does want is sex.
I'm having to live with mine, but next year it will get better
He sounds very possessive and by the way...forcing someone to have sex is RAPE. No you should not be with him.
if my bf was trying to push me into sex before i was ready i would ditch him
get rid of him its only gonna get worse trust me been there done that
if u mean u really were forced then no of course not
Drop the loser!
THAT IS RAPE!!!!! Dump him if not turn him in!!!!!
Do you realize he committed a crime.You shouldn't let this go.
NO.
DUMP HIM
LEAVE HIM! please, rly
Isn't that RAPE?
no, love waits!
screw him !! Your body your decision
It's hard to say... I mean if he's as nice as you say. I think maybe it's too soon to tell. Maybe you should give it a little time, but if you find that this is a patttern and normal then kick him to the curb. Cause someone too possesive isn't good either. Have a talk with him and let him know how you feel..... Good luck..........
That is rape. If he did it once, he'll do it again. If he really is such a 'great guy' he would never force you to do anything you don't want to. The fact that it was the first time only makes it worse! He seems nice, but he's proved that he's dangerous. Tell him that he raped you and you can't be together anymore. If he seems dangerous after that, get a restraining order.
I would take that as him with ';Sexual Harassment'; He can't just keep forcing you like that, it's not his choice, it's your choice only, tell him that you don't want to have sex yet with him, if he gets violent, call for help immediately, call the cops or get some help next door, there are people that take sex seriously and force you too, and sometimes if they don't listen, they get violent. Take care of yourself.
What you're feeling is natural. You're not going to immediately stop loving someone because he hurt you. The point is, that he's a rapist and an abuser, and in love or not, this is not a healthy relationship for you to be in. He is exhibiting classic abusive behavior, including the apologies and gifts, and will not change. Forgive him and forget him.
I would have absolutely dumped him if he started forcing me to have sex with him, and even if he did all those things, I would still dump him. You shouldn't stay with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable, but it's your choice.





Your first time having sex should be comfortable, fun, and happy, NOT forced. He probably will do it again, just to let you know.





Leave him now, is my advice.

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